A person's gaze is a powerful tool that can impress any interlocutor. He can charm, can attract or reject, enhances the possibility of manipulative influence. A negative directed at a person can be neutralized by him. Magnetic, odic, central - these are all characteristics of that strongest gaze that only a few have.

Everyone met people who, with their resolute, focused, barely tolerated gaze, “drove into a corner”, because it seemed that a person sees right through us. Such people can subjugate anyone, they are familiar with the power that the ordinary eye can possess.

Psychology, perhaps, does not understand the mechanisms of influence of the gaze on a person, however, numerous studies show that such an effect exists. For example, an experiment was conducted in which participants with their eyes closed were asked to feel someone else's gaze from the back. And in most cases, this was determined accurately.

It is believed that the gaze can send the interlocutor a thought wave directly to the brain. In this case, one should look at the bridge of the nose, where the eyebrows converge. There a person has a nervous center. In Eastern philosophy, there is the "third eye". Desires, feelings or commands sent to this center will be necessarily perceived if the gaze has the same power. To give the gaze special properties, you need to develop certain skills.

Development of gaze power

Training is necessary to develop the required skills. They will develop skills, and after a while the result will be noticed: the interlocutors will begin to behave somewhat differently when talking, requests of any plan will increasingly be fulfilled unquestioningly.

Afghan girl Sharbat Gula

Exercise with a piece of paper

Take a sheet of white paper, preferably thick. Draw a 3 cm circle in the center with a black felt-tip pen and attach it to the wall so that it is at eye level. Then you should sit in front of this circle at a distance of 1 meter and peer into the center, focusing your gaze. You cannot blink or look away for one minute. Concentration required: it is very important to imagine that energy or a ray is coming from the eyes. After a little rest, you can do a few more of these approaches.

Then it is necessary to move the sheet one meter to the left and look at it without turning your head (with peripheral vision) for 1 minute. Outweigh the paper a meter to the right, look with a peripheral vision in that direction. The exercise is repeated several times.

It is advisable to perform these exercises every day, and when they become light (usually after 4-5 days), you should increase the exercise time to 2 minutes in one approach. Then reduce the approaches to one, prolonging the execution. Ultimately, you need to ensure that the concentration of vision is not lost for 15 minutes at a time. Exercise will help develop a strong gaze.

Blue eyed african boy

Using a mirror

Place a mirror in front of you and peer into the reflection of your own eyes. Then you need to draw a small dot on the mirror, between the eyebrows, and look at it. You should act according to the principle of the first exercise, increasing the peering time to 15 minutes in one approach. This exercise will help you withstand the strong gaze of others and will sharpen your own gaze.

More advanced eye exercises

There are more complex exercises that can only be carried out after completing one of the previous ones:

1. A sheet of paper, the same as in the first exercise, is attached to the wall. You need to stand near the wall at a distance of 1 meter so that the circle is at eye level. The gaze is fixed on a point, and the head is made circular movements clockwise, and then, after 1 minute, counterclockwise. You can't get away from the circle. This is how the optic nerves develop and the muscles of the eyes are strengthened.
2. You should stand with your back to the wall, look at the other wall, which is in front. The look is translated left-right, up-down, zigzag, in circles. Each option takes one minute. This exercise will strengthen your eye muscles.
3. A candle is required for the exercise. It is necessary to light it, sit in front of it so that it stands between straightened arms. You need to look at the flame, without taking your eyes off, for 1 minute with 3 repetitions. Energy waves from the flame will convey strength, severity, fill the look with warmth. With this exercise, energy is not given, but obtained.

Each of the exercises will strengthen your gaze, ultimately give you confidence, rigidity, and steadfastness. It is important not to squint, look straight, and not expand the eyelids very much. If your eyes get tired while doing, you can rinse them with cold water for a quick rest.

This look lasts depending on the situation. More often than not, one should not gaze extremely closely and for a long time at the interlocutor. You need a calm and confident gaze that will make you obey.

You should not use the acquired skills for evil purposes, because evil returns like a boomerang.

The magic of the gaze

A magical gaze is a gift that appears from birth. Most likely, it cannot be learned, you can only possess it. Some people do not understand how powerful a weapon they have under their command. To the full extent the magical look is used by clairvoyants, healers, sorcerers.

It is lucky if a magical gaze is directed at a person with a kind positive energy, a desire to help. But it negatively affects the state of a person if they begin to scan him, pump out energy, they want to harm, jinx or damage him. But you can protect yourself from it if you learn to resist the flow of negative energy.

Exercises to develop protective properties:

1. A black dot is drawn on a piece of paper. The sheet is hung at eye height. It is necessary to move back 2 meters and look at the point without blinking as long as possible until the eyes get tired. Then you should stop the exercise, rest for a couple of minutes. When doing it, it is important to imagine an evil look, someone else's eyes that can harm. The main thing is to convince yourself when performing the exercise that no one can harm with a glance, that is, damage. It is important to see the thin threads that connect the gaze to this point on the wall and understand that these threads do not harm, but only protect from adverse influences.

1. The exercise will allow you to quickly take away the energy that someone has taken. A white candle is placed on the table and lit. It is required to sit in front of her and with a momentary glance try to take the energy of the fire, and then give it back. The exercise is repeated several times and ends at the stage of taking energy.

Some facts

• A long gaze between men can be interpreted as aggression, so be careful.
• If a man and a woman stare at each other and the woman is the first to look away, then the position of subordination to this man is fixed in her.
• If a woman is not indifferent to a man, this can be determined by her dilated pupils. However, don't confuse this with a reaction to a lack of lighting.

Natural beauty is always in vogue, even if girls dressed in red and violet are walking on the catwalks, frightening with their absent gaze. Long hair, well-groomed hands, smooth skin, fluffy eyelashes - all this cannot but attract attention. And even if nature has not rewarded you with all of the above advantages, modern cosmetology will come to the rescue.

Materials for nail and hair extension can be found in a beauty salon, and go to a beautician's office for radiant skin, do not forget about a dentist who will give you a snow-white smile.

Long eyelashes give a special charm to a girl's face. Unfortunately, not all girls get this nice bonus, so the beauty industry comes to the rescue. Manufacturers of decorative cosmetics offer a large number of lengthening, voluminous and colored mascara. Unfortunately, not all ingredients of eyelash dyes are natural, and for a few hours of a mesmerizing look from under fluffy eyelashes, you have to pay with allergies, dark circles or even lost eyelashes.

In order for your eyelashes to grow thicker and longer, beauticians suggest using castor oil. It is applied with a clean brush from the old mascara at night, carefully smearing each eyelash on the upper and lower eyelids. In addition, this recipe has a positive effect on the thin skin around the eyes, which lacks nutrition and hydration. Never leave makeup removal "for later" - this negatively affects not only the eyelashes suffering under a thick layer of mascara, but also the general condition of the skin, which will react with comedones and inflammation.

Are you tired of patiently dyeing your eyelashes every morning to achieve at least some volume and length? Then go for the extension procedure, which has become very popular lately. Materials for eyelash extension are hypoallergenic, the glue is non-toxic, the hairs of mink fur or silk fibers do not differ from natural eyelashes. Artificial eyelashes (single or bunched) last for about 3 weeks, then you should visit a specialist for their correction, which will not take much time. The extension procedure is absolutely painless, the result is visible immediately, and wearing artificial eyelashes does not cause discomfort, in contrast to the use of whole pads, which look completely unnatural.

Discussion of the article “Fascinating Look? Easy!"

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Alyonusik

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marina

Not at all beautiful and properly extended eyelashes look natural and can be wetted, you cannot use an oil-based wash. And they drop out in the same way as ours, it's just that it's more noticeable, probably you got a not very professional master

olga

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olga

It is better to treat your own and stay away from false eyelashes. I really regretted that I increased it .. at first it hurts, then you can't wash your face properly, since you can't wet your eyelashes with water, they also crumble, bend, etc. .. and when I took them off.that was a shock my eyelashes broke off and poured out .. then I put them out for a long time.

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And I was lucky! My eyelashes are long and thick! I occasionally only paint the ends. And so I use a special gel! Mom scolds me, says: "Why do you need all this? Nature rewarded you, and you."

Alyona

Unfortunately, the process of eyelash extension is not as painless as the author writes.
and wearing extended eyelashes causes discomfort. the eyelashes turn inside out, bend in the wrong direction and fall out.

How to develop an attractive look and achieve your goals? In this article, you will learn how to attract people with your eyes and how to stop them. You will also find two valuable exercises for resting and relaxing your eyes.

This secret recipe for a fascinating look is well known in the East, but in the West they practically do not know about it. How to make your look attractive and inviting?

What do we have to do?

Tune in to a joyful state and bring a genuine smile to your face. When she appears, listen carefully to the sensations accompanying this smile, imprinted them in your sensory memory.

How to develop an attractive look?

To develop an eye-catching look, try imitating a smile in the back of your head! It is necessary to concentrate the sensations of a smile, warmth, affection and tenderness that accompanies it, in the area behind the eyes. After several attempts, everyone succeeds.

Ask your partner to watch the expression in your eyes change. If there is no partner, do all this in front of the mirror. The very reproduction of a smile in the back of the head changes the sensory content of the look, the expression of the eyes. Well, if you direct a smile from the back of your head into your eyes and feel its warmth flowing in your eyes, you will get the desired result. The look will be filled with tenderness, warmth, kindness and attractiveness.

How to develop a repulsive look?

Now imagine you have a piece of ice in the back of your head. His coldness flows into his eyes, and his gaze immediately becomes prickly, cold ... Sometimes you need to be able to direct such a gaze to a person in order to restrain him, stop him.

Pair training

One of the partners creates a warm affectionate smile in the back of his head, and the other creates a piece of ice. They look into each other's eyes, and the one who generates a smile, with the warmth of his gaze, tries to melt the icy gaze of the other. Usually this can be done on the second or third attempt.

You will feel how your affectionate, kind and warm look is stronger than cold and alienation. And the partner will also feel how, together with the ice melting in the back of his head, the alertness and coldness of his gaze disappears. Eyes tend to get tired after gaze exercises².

Eye relaxation exercises

Let's learn a few exercises to relax the eyes. They can be performed in any conditions. Place your palms in front of your face, 30 to 40 centimeters from your eyes.

Create a smile in your eyes and look at your palms. In this case, the gaze should be non-fixed, scattered. Very soon you will feel how the eye muscles and the eyes themselves relax, rest ...

Or you can just close your eyes and create a smile in the back of your head and in your eyes. The effect will be much the same.

Another exercise to relax and rest your eyes

Using the pads of your middle fingers, draw a line from the middle of the eyebrow upwards, about two fingers deep into the scalp. You will feel your fingers stop at certain points. Press and hold them for a few minutes. Perceptible warmth from the fingers will relax the eye muscles and give rest to the closed eyes.

Try to keep a smile in the back of your head all the time. Very soon your look will become extremely attractive and inviting. People will be drawn to you like bees to the scent of nectar. You need to keep a smile in your eyes and in the back of your head even when something annoys you.

If you have the patience not to break down on the first little thing, then a smile will help you quickly get rid of irritation, treat people kindly, with understanding. The main result of such work will be that the long-forgotten beauty of the surrounding world will open to your eyes. The greenery of the trees, the freshness of flowers and the whole world around you will become different - warm and inviting.

With a smile in your eyes, you seem to rediscover everything that surrounds you. You will suddenly realize that life is not limited to making money. On the contrary, this problem artificially impoverishes life. Beauty is deleted from it.

Try to keep a smile in the back of your head, in your eyes ... Your mood, attitude towards yourself and others, thoughts and feelings - everything will change! Try it, you will definitely love your new condition!

Communication between people is carried out not only with the help of verbal symbols, but also with the help of gestures, gaze, facial expressions, body position

When a person feels sympathy, it is difficult not to notice, and it is the non-verbal signals that can indicate interest. The look of a man in love is a universal “marker” that is difficult to fake. Human eyes are able to show what cannot be said in words. A woman who knows how to understand the intricacies of non-verbal signals is able to accurately determine whether a certain man has sympathy for her or not.

What can a glance say?

The eyes are the mirror of the soul, which means that they are able to show a lot, especially the feelings and emotions that an individual is experiencing at the moment. When you fall in love, a whole spectrum of changes occurs in the human body, which can even be recorded using a blood test. The increase in the level of endorphin hormones leaves a special imprint on behavior and physical reactions. These substances cause heart palpitations, euphoria, feelings of happiness and their effects cannot be overlooked. What can a man's eyes talk about, and is it worth paying attention to?

Important. Not every eye contact means being in love and being interested. On the pickup courses that are common today, men are taught many tricks that are aimed at deceiving a potential partner, including controlling their senses.

It is impossible to evaluate the gaze separately from other non-verbal expressions, as it can be easily deceived, especially when dealing with a trained pick-up artist. In order not to get into such a situation, pay attention to:

1. Demeanor. A guy in love, in most cases, behaves confidently, but does not show aggression or impudence. The stronger sex strives to show itself in all its glory, however, an interested guy will not allow himself to be too active.
2. Facial expressions and gestures. A discrepancy between views and actions can indicate falsity. For example, if the pose is closed and the eyes speak of sympathy, then most likely you should not rush and draw unambiguous conclusions.

However, in most cases, the eyes do not deceive and it is easy to judge by the presence or absence of sympathy. It is enough to know what to look for.

Signs of a man in love

Thanks to psychophysiological changes in the body of the stronger sex, sympathy is actively manifested externally. The look of a guy in love is characterized by the following features:

1. Direction. A man in love looks into the eyes and face of the object of desire with genuine interest. Captures every movement, does not lose sight of every detail.
2. Duration. Typically, friendly eye contact is short, benevolent. If a guy keeps his eyes on a woman for more than 5 seconds, then we can say that he has fallen in love.
3. Pupil size. When sympathy develops, endorphins are released. The heartbeat increases, and the pupils dilate. The bottomless eye effect is a direct indication that a person is experiencing strong feelings. If the pupils remain small, and the man is scattered in compliments, you know, most likely, he is just flirting or wants intimacy and nothing more.
4. Attention. The representative of the stronger sex, in most cases, fixes his eyes on the interlocutor he likes during his speech, trying to catch a hint of reciprocity of feelings. When a woman speaks, he is dispersed, wandering.

On a note. Most men cannot remember the first conversation with the object of passion, he simply does not remember what the conversation was about. But it can accurately describe the outfit of the companion, her facial features, figure, timbre of voice and behavior.

Views

Knowing what the eyes of the stronger sex express, you can avoid mistakes and not build illusions about the seriousness of intentions where they simply do not exist. An interested guy's gaze might be:

• lovers;
• flirting;
• intimate.

If a representative of the stronger sex falls in love, then his eyes are looking for eye contact with the girl. He can look at the face for a long time, only casually touching the figure. He is gentle, benevolent, caring. His whole being seems to be waiting for confirmation of the reciprocity of feelings. The pupils are dilated, which can be seen even in bright light.

When a man flirts, his eyes do not drop below his face. If he has not yet decided on his intentions regarding the woman, then the behavior will be flirting, easy.

An intimate gaze is fixed on the figure, casually touching the face. It means that a man regards a woman only as an object of sexual desire. His behavior can be cocky, defiant. At the same time, the pupils are most often dilated, which indicates his desire to quickly move to closer contact.

By the way. The University of Texas professors conducted an experiment in which they managed to prove the selectivity of men. Thus, when choosing a permanent partner or future spouse, more than 80% of the subjects focused on the facial features of women, and when choosing a sexual object, their eyes were attracted only to the figure.

For women, the most desirable look is the loving look. However, if a man really likes, but from his side the girl notices only sexual desire, you should not assume that you can radically influence the situation. He has already decided everything for himself, and it will be very difficult to change his opinion.

How to respond to a man in love

If you notice that the representative of the stronger sex does not take his eyes off you and sympathy is mutual, you should proceed to decisive action. Long gone are the days when modesty was considered a girl's adornment. Of course, it is not necessary to behave cheekily and vulgarly, this will only alienate the man who feeds tender feelings. He is waiting for confirmation of the reciprocity of feelings, and a woman can show this using the following techniques:

1. Make long-term eye contact and at the same time sharply move your eyes to the lips, linger on them for a little and look into the eyes again. This method makes the man understand that he is more than pretty and the woman sees him as a candidate for the role of a partner.
2. "Shoot" with your eyes. To do this, "catch" his gaze, linger on him for a few seconds and turn away. This will allow the man to understand that the girl is ready for active actions on his part and is waiting for them.
3. Use gestures and touch actively. Prolonged eye contact and touching the hand will do more than the spoken words.

If a man does not cause a woman's sympathy and desire to start a relationship, then you should not maintain eye contact with him and respond to his loving look. In this state, he can take even a friendly wink as a signal for action and begin to conquer the girl against her wishes.

Most men do not know how to hide their loving eyes. This makes it easy to understand what feelings he has for one or another of the fair sex. The eyes are difficult to deceive, especially when they are complemented by other non-verbal signs of sympathy. Falling in love with a man who has become interested is easy, it is enough in time and correctly to respond to the signals broadcast by him.