Why is a guy jealous of a girl for everything. Why are men jealous. He gets mad when others find you attractive.

Jealousy is part of a relationship. Moderate jealousy on the part of a guy flatters a girl, because she is an extension of his love for her. However, what to do if your boyfriend's jealousy, which knows no bounds, poisons your relationship more and more every day?

Why is he jealous

In the people it is customary to believe that "jealous - it means he loves." In fact, everything is a little more complicated than it seems at first glance. Jealousy, which is the fear of losing a loved one, is based not only and even not so much on feelings for a loved one, but on self-doubt.

The basis of almost every male jealousy is the feeling that the girl is too good, that the guy does not match her. In this case, the man experiences a constant fear of being abandoned. The jealous person is constantly looking for confirmation of his own fears. At the same time, it is worth paying attention to the fact that jealousy can have hidden forms, when a guy clearly does not show his feelings, but it still interferes with building normal trusting relationships.

It also happens that the girl herself provokes outbursts of jealousy of her young man. She may be a completely expected reaction to defiant behavior, too revealing outfits, encouragement of fans by the girl. If you are dating a guy and intend to build a serious relationship with him, try to moderate your demonstrative sexuality. This does not mean that from now on you should turn into a nun, but it will be wiser to demonstrate your own looseness only to your young man. Keep in mind that cheeky behavior and friendship are not the same thing.

How to deal with jealousy

What to do if the jealousy that your boyfriend shows greatly interferes with building your relationship, but you love him and want to keep your connection?

It all depends on how his jealousy manifests itself.

1. Make a jealous person walk in your shoes. Become a mirror image of him for a while: be jealous of everyone, even colleagues who work after retirement, stage jealousy scenes in public, control correspondence, watch text messages on your phone, in general, do everything towards him that and he is towards you. This behavior of yours, on the one hand, will help him gain self-confidence, because if a girl like you is jealous of him, then he deserves it. On the other hand, having felt in his own skin all the “charms” of life with a jealous woman, he will also reconsider his own behavior.
2. Talk frankly with your loved one. Find out the reasons for his excessive jealousy. If he is not able to overcome his fears of losing you on his own, offer to seek the help of a psychologist together.
3. Try to react as less emotionally as possible to his bouts of jealousy. With angry outbursts, the jealous person tries to make you make excuses for what you did not do and assure him of his boundless love. If he does not get what he wants, gradually outbursts of jealousy will come to naught. However, at a time when your relationship is not overshadowed by such scenes, in every possible way assure the guy that he is the best in the world for you.
4. If the guy is very jealous for the reason that he is pathologically possessive, be careful, as this relationship can be dangerous for you. Never forgive a guy for assault in a fit of jealousy. Keep in mind that situations like this will only happen more often over time. As soon as you notice that your boyfriend is struggling to contain his anger, immediately leave him. When parting, try not to hurt his self-esteem, otherwise you risk getting yourself worst enemy. At the same time, it will not be superfluous for him to know that there is someone to stand up for you: a brother, father or good friends who will always come to the rescue in difficult times and protect you from an annoying jealous person.

What should I do if my boyfriend is too jealous?

The guy is jealous of me very much!

H what to do if you got an overly jealous guy:

1. Drop this guy! Why do you need him with these aggressive feelings? If you can't quit - hint that you will if he annoys you.
2. Think about it: maybe you are giving a reason, that's why your young man is jealous of you? Do not be afraid of self-criticism when it is useful.
3. For a couple of minutes, for the sake of experimentation, put yourself in the place of your MCH. What do you feel? Jealous or not?
4. Say: “You will be jealous of me for every pillar in the city - all people risk being left without light! Have pity on the innocent people!"
5. Advise the jealous person to read something smart. Some literature that will show and prove that jealousy is harmful. Jealousy is a killer of nerve cells.
6. Try not to pay even the slightest attention to the manifestation of jealousy. Jealousy is a kind of "awakening" of neurosis.
7. Do something that will lead your jealous man to convert to religion. Religion says jealousy is a sin.
8. He is jealous - jealous of you too! Moreover, it is as strong and unbearable as he does it. See how such a weapon will piss him off.
9. Blame him for cheating on you! If he is jealous of you so diligently, he has something to hide.
10. Jealous - loves. Go into this stereotype with your head, and treat jealousy as an attribute of everyday life.

To Commentary on the first paragraph:

Hello! I am Oksana. My boyfriend is a terrible jealous man. But I can't leave him. I love. It will be bad without him. Ready to endure these "troubles" of his. I don't know how long it will take me, but for now I'm holding on. I would not advise you to leave your loved ones, girls! Love is not a potato: it cannot be thrown out of the window. Oksana, Nizhny Novgorod region.

To Commentary on the second point:

Yes! We are responsible for everything! There is nothing to blame us for what we are not guilty of. Men are like that. They don't know how to be jealous, that's all. But the poor and the unfortunate, you see, they make themselves out of themselves! My boyfriend is jealous of me for no reason at all. He probably has nothing to do. I don't see or find any other explanation. Daria, Kazakhstan.

To Commentary on the third paragraph:

I'm jealous! And I understand my boyfriend. But I, unlike him, understand what a "measure" is. He just ignores her. He's so comfortable, I guess. Egoist! Everyone is selfish… He is especially, as far as I understand. Nowhere to run from the feeling of his jealousy. It would be where - ran away. Friends advise to leave, but I have been with him for more than seven years. It's probably unrealistic. Let's see how things go further. Maybe we'll run away. Hope, Banyunin.

To commentary on the fourth point:

I appreciate humor! If only our boys knew how to appreciate him. They do not always understand ordinary jokes correctly. I am generally afraid to talk about those that contain hints. You say that you are going to a disco with another - war! Such humor, perhaps, cannot be, or does it have a purely male gender?

To commentary on the fifth point:

My boyfriend won't read anything because he doesn't like to read. I don’t like this “dislike” in him, but I can’t do anything with this. He likes to dig in technology more, to assemble and disassemble cars. Books are not his passion. Kira, Luxembourg.

To commentary on the sixth point:

To not pay attention? Interesting…. How? Plug your ears, close your eyes? Hardly. And how then? I don't know how others can act on this "technology". I would suggest freezing jealousy in any of its manifestations until it has destroyed all feelings in the world of humanity. Zoryan, Ternopil.

To commentary on the seventh point:

I like this idea. I’m thinking about how to “vaccinate” my husband to everything religious. And he's too obsessed with me. It doesn't just irritate me, it makes me depressed. I'm going to be hysterical soon if this doesn't stop. Polina, Moscow.

To commentary on the eighth point:

We complement each other: both he and I are unrestrained jealous people. It is bad that we are scandalous on this basis. But we can't change anything, no matter how hard we try. He has already sent me to a psychiatric hospital millions and thousands of times. I joked that they would take him after me too. Jealousy is black humor. Because I've heard a lot about her. Good is too little. Jealousy is the enemy of all love and its power. Miroslava, Simferopol.

To commentary on the ninth point:

And she is not an angel. Capable of change. But only when I don't like it. I love my little man and will not give it to anyone. And I will never betray. I know how to be faithful to the one I love and appreciate. Julia, Pleschenitsy.

To commentary on the tenth point:

Never lived by stereotypes. If a person loves, he must trust his soul mate, and not be jealous of her for an infinite number of seconds. It's not easy though, sometimes. I can trust my man. And I'm not afraid to let him play billiards, knowing that he goes with friends and girls. I see that he loves me. Why be nervous? It is necessary not to lose self-control, so as not to lose love. And then, with this jealousy, only continuous troubles. I have studied it too well! Violetta, Moscow.

E If your boyfriend (man) beats you when he is jealous - sound the alarm. The fact that he hit once also means that it will not be problematic for him to repeat. Bruises and abrasions, scratches and swelling. This is all that can be traces of a fool - jealousy. Is it worth going to the police? Worth it if you're serious! No man has the right to raise a hand against a woman! Whatever she was, whatever she did.

A man depicts scenes of jealousy and at the same time walks "to the left"? Talk seriously to him. Hard and serious, not soft and tender! You should not give indulgences to those who do not deserve them in the least. Arrange a "male" conversation for a man. It will be more useful.

He is very scandalous - pack your bags and go to relatives or friends. He needs to be given time to think. He thinks - maybe he will understand a lot. Not everyone understands, but you need to hope for the best. And you won't mind resting either. Scandal is not heaven on earth. You deserve the very best. So get this "best".

Destroy jealousy with suitcases!

The guy is very jealous. -

A young girl turned to psychologists for help and advice with the following request:

"I'm on the verge! I need psychologist's advice.
I am a very active young girl, 22 years old, I have achieved everything in my life (my parents are alcoholics and could not give anything).
I have a lot of hobbies and acquaintances, I'm professionally engaged in diving, hiking, mountains, a lot.
But this winter I met a boy of 23, he is good, generous, but!
He believes that everything should be around him and mine the guy is jealous to my hobbies.
Everything is aggravated by the fact that he is on business trips and I drive to trips or festivals!
I’ll make a reservation right away, I tell everyone that I have a boyfriend, and I’m not free!
With their eternal chicanery and jealousy it brings me to tears, because I'm worried.
Here I am asking council of psychologists: what to do?"

And that's what psychologists and just ordinary people answer the girl. Personally, we noted that most of the advice is sound and valuable, without attempts to "save the relationship", "save the relationship."

And without the usual bad advice female psychologists, like, "how to influence a guy and make him do what I want."

So, what are the opinions expressed by psychologists on this request. What to do if a guy is jealous?

What, the last guy on earth, or what? The prospect is to completely lose yourself. jealous guy- not to eat well. And the tyrant inside him will only progress.

- Jealousydestroys both. Go away.

22! There is so much more to come! Don't focus on emptyguy's jealousy!

It's time for you to get married, he is afraid for you that some damn thing will seduce you at the festival, and he will not be able to protect you. Get married officially and have children, there will be common interests and activities. Your hobbies are children's games. Or find yourself another guy and this one will fall off you.

Here the choice is yours. "Love" (in quotation marks, because I don't know if you have it) and sacrifice your hobbies, or enjoy your activities, but with another person.

By these jealousies your jealous guy It only "suffocates" you. Everyone should have some drop of freedom, their own personal space

- "He believes that everything should be around him and is completely jealous of my hobbies. Everything is aggravated by the fact that he is on business trips and I drive on trips or festivals!" - Do you think he will yield in the future? And will you be happy with such a person? Ask yourself these questions.

Is the prospect of fulfilling other people's desires, whims and following other people's complexes better than living your full life and what you like, being yourself. Many people lose this "being themselves" after such relationships, when the guy is jealous and makes it overly emotional. I agree with the first comment.

And everyone knows that the more immature the relationship and the people in it, the greater the desire to suppress, change. Especially if it is already "on the verge and brings to tears." You have to love yourself like that.

It's time to tighten it in your interests, you need to be together everywhere. Then guy jealous will stop.

Find the boy in your interest groups!

Thank you, boys in my interests are sometimes a little irresponsible! I needed confirmation of my fears! Thanks again.

"He's nice, generous, but..."Your "but" has said it all. "But" is always "NO". The rest is just ways to justify this "but".

Catherine, the guy is jealousbecause it feels threatened. Therefore, it is necessary to remove his anxiety. The best way- appear with him in the circle of your friends, if you can’t captivate, then at least introduce him to your interests. The unknown scares and worries your friend. Hence and boyfriend jealousy.

And besides jealousy Do you have other interests with a guy?

Probably not. We sometimes live with me, soon we must go to the wedding of his friend.

What for jealous guy To you?

He has the qualities of a wonderful husband, he will be able to support his family.

And love?

Now under the emotions I'm not sure!

In general, you know, Katya, I had a similar story. I was 19, he was 23. We met for 2.5 years, when in an instant I decided that it couldn’t be like this any longer. He was my first love and there was nothing to compare these feelings with.

He loved me too, but was extremely jealous to all. My the guy was jealous to my friends, to how I spend my free time. Jealous to friends in social networks (by the way, he even had access to my page, God forbid someone writes something "wrong" to me - a scandal). Jealous to classmates at the university, to the desire to learn and develop, I'm not talking about the fact that just talking with a male person was a reason for a showdown.

I'm tired of such relationships, tired of the fact that I'm always guilty of something without guilt, of the fact that my life is boring next to him. And he did not share my hobbies. I left, it was hard and easy at the same time. But after parting, I finally felt happy.

Leaving is very hard! And a little scary, what if I can’t find a better one?

Now we don’t communicate with him for 3 days and it’s easy for me, because I can be myself, but I’m not attracted to other men!

I know it's hard. And it's scary, but what's next? But here it is important to decide whether you want to continue to be close to this person. And in old age?

And why should you immediately be drawn to other men? Everyone is in a hurry somewhere. It's okay to be alone, and rightly so. As for the complex of eternal guilt, the girl above correctly wrote. In fact, it's all about you, whether you are ready for this, and not about him. Read who the abusers are, when such a person loses, he seems to be ready for concessions, and then on the same rails. Get away from this jealous guy difficult, but crawling out of such a marriage is even more difficult.

Control is the first sign of a tyrant.

Maybe you're right! Thanks for the advice, I this moment not ready to lose your interests, company and hobbies! Then there will be children, and we don’t know what’s next! Maybe I won't have any friends.

But now at 22 being a recluse, I think it's terrible!

The truth is, it's okay to be alone and think. You know better, you know the situation and him better. I was in such a marriage. At 20, I listened to few people, all with experience. Both unfortunately and fortunately.

I understand that I whine a little, but everything is aggravated by the fact that I don’t have parents who can protect and give support, and I don’t want to tell my friends!

There is no one to protect you from yet, and you cannot put responsibility on someone "responsible and serious", and then wonder why I do not live the way I want. you imagine best friend. And if he is also your friend, he will respect your interests. Imagine your next best friend, which will tell you: "do not go there, this is not true, I feel bad when you are not around, and why couldn't you go with me, but went with Tanya?" etc. So why is a partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife allowed to do this?

You're right! If we still talk or there will be some kind of relationship, I will set boundaries and ultimatums, if you don’t like it, he will immediately leave! And there will be no more in my life!

Do not write "you are right", I do not give advice. Just think and talk calmly. Marriage does not burn, there is always time. And you have great hobbies. And if a girl decides for herself: I want to be a wife and devote myself to my family and children, this is also normal if this is her choice. Everyone decides.

Well, well, the girl was given a lot of good and practical advice. It can be seen that she and herself have more clarity about these relationships. I would only like to draw attention to her words "I will set boundaries and ultimatums, if you don't like it, he will leave right away! And he will not be in my life again!".

This is already excessive sharpness and decisiveness. The girl swung to the other extreme - to tear, throw and give ultimatums jealous guy. The spring, which was compressed, sharply straightened and can hit painfully. There is nothing good about it either. Ultimatums are generally a bad decision.
Yes, talk to the guy, explain your position. But there is no need for ultimatums and harshness. When you are sure of something, there is no need to shout about it and fight in hysterics. It is enough just to calmly talk about your needs. And then politely but firmly defend them.

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Many people who are in a love relationship have come across such a concept as jealousy. Sometimes, this feeling can give some "zest" to the relationship, if it happens in moderation, but what if the guy is jealous for no reason?

Male jealousy does not manifest itself as easily and quickly as female. But if she appeared, then the consequences, as a rule, are more severe and deplorable, she incinerates him from the inside, and sometimes leads to paronoia. Jealousy is manifested due to self-doubt, fear of being rejected, deceived. The young man imagines how pathetic and ridiculous he will look in the form of a "cuckold" and cannot come to terms with this thought.

If a guy is very jealous, you can try to "get to the bottom" of the reasons for this behavior. Maybe the girl herself gave such a reason. For example, she accepts the courtship of another young man, and although she herself does not see anything reprehensible in this, then, naturally, her boyfriend will not like it. As, however, and to herself, if the situation was the other way around. But, sometimes, jealousy happens out of nowhere. He may not like friendly relations with the opposite sex, even the fact that the girl just looked at another man. Then the matter takes a completely different turn and here it is better to part.

Don't make excuses to a jealous person. Oddly enough, but he is only waiting for this, and confidence in fidelity will not increase. You should behave calmly and try to show how absurd his assumptions are. You can overcome a guy's insecurities by telling him how wonderful and loved he is.

It happens that a girl does not want to break off relations, despite the fact that the guy is quite jealous. It must be admitted that the relationship will not be easy. In some cases, to fully solve the problem, you should contact a psychologist, because it is quite difficult to fight this disease alone (and this is exactly the case).

The jealous person himself suffers no less severely than their other side. He lives in eternal anxiety, fear that he will be betrayed. With constant suspicions, he incinerates both himself and his partner. Such couples often swear, distrust each other. All this clearly does not contribute to good relationships either among themselves or with the people around them.

If jealousy cannot be overcome by love and fidelity, then in this case it would be better to leave. The more a girl tolerates such an attitude towards herself, the more the jealous man will feel his power, and if he is also aggressive, then this can end in handshake or even murder. In love, there should always be trust in each other, but if it is not there, then such a relationship will not bring joy.

Often the jealousy of a young man is a consequence of a betrayal committed by him. Therefore, you should take a closer look at him, maybe he just shifts his guilt to the girl, diverting all unnecessary suspicions from himself. You can ask him a compromising question and see his reaction.

Now that a girl knows what it means if a guy is jealous and what can be expected of him, she can do right choice- break up or deal with his problem. In any case, only love, trust and mutual understanding can overcome any trouble.

Love and jealousy, although they often go through life together, are still not faithful neighbors. Love is love, and jealousy is jealousy. If a guy really loves, he understands everything and tries not to poison her life with his suspicion. How to understand that a guy is jealous and learn not to give a reason to a jealous man? Let's try to figure it out together. Psychologists have identified the most common causes of jealousy:

"Don't touch mine." Almost any guy, due to his genetic nature, is an owner and strives to become the center of attention of his chosen one, other representatives of the stronger sex in this union are the third ones. Therefore, as soon as in the company your boyfriend frowned and began to look askance at your interlocutors, end the conversation and completely focus on your companion.

Even brave and prosperous guys sometimes experience an overwhelming sense of fear that they will be abandoned for others. Each representative of this type has a set of “fads”, among which there is a different expectation of “bad” news from the love front. If the “gloomy” news has not yet arrived, the jealous man, driven by complexes, begins to scrupulously look for them and sooner or later finds them.

Even the most successful guys are sometimes pathologically afraid of rumors, gossip and scandals. Such jealous people are frightened not so much by the fact of betrayal as by its publicity. Connoisseurs of a good reputation are often themselves inclined to violently sort things out. If your boyfriend is from this timid ten, be mentally prepared for family scenes.

There are two striking types of manifestation of jealousy. The first one starts with regular reproaches addressed to you. The chosen one does not like delays at work, meetings with girlfriends, trips to the coach to the gym. As a rule, such jealous people violently express their dissatisfaction. The second type is "silent jealousy". A loved one is offended, does not talk, is naughty, like a child, refuses to eat, and even leaves the house from time to time. It is difficult to figure out what was the reason in this case. But it is necessary to discuss the problem with your loved one before the relationship reaches an impasse.

How to understand that a guy is jealous? You will unmistakably understand this as soon as you notice that your phone, social media profiles and Email were checked regularly. Your jealous man is persistently looking for evidence, you must do everything possible to avert offensive suspicions from yourself.

Signs that a guy is jealous

¨ After your walk, he is once again angry. Doesn't want to talk to you. Guys from the very birth were "driven" into their heads that it was not decent to show any manifestation of sentimentality and emotions in general to others. Therefore, they experience everything within themselves. If a woman can cry, throw a tantrum and just break loose and break all the dishes, then the guy simply cannot do it. He feeds a terrible animal inside himself with his jealousy and doubts, and after a while it will eat him;

¨ He responds to your desire to go somewhere without him with indignation. You can quarrel a lot, not talk. But when you refuse to leave the house, he behaves as if nothing had happened. Can answer you with the phrase "Go where you want and do what you want." After such a scene, there will not always be a mood to appear somewhere and even more so to have fun. You're under attack again;

¨ Uses deception to keep you at home. A very common phrase "I thought we'd be together today ... Heh", after which you stay at home, and he starts to do his own thing. As if you are not there, and he did not get bored, and in general it was not he who uttered this phrase;

¨ Checks and control - the reason that the guy is jealous of you. Constant phone checks. Reads incoming SMS before you have time to pick up the phone. Deletes some contacts. He gets mad at you all the time when you didn't tell him your whereabouts. If his friend is walking nearby, he will definitely “look after” you;

¨ Constant questions. "Don't you have a lover?" - Sounds from his lips in a joking manner. But you understand that such a question is not asked as a joke and is not a joke at all. Questions and answers of the content “Did anyone molest you?” and “everyone was staring at you today”, “everyone needs you” also cast suspicion on the usual behavior of a loved one. He is jealous of everyone.

What methods should be used to make a guy less jealous:

¨ Tell him that he is the only one, the best and sexiest. Guys like compliments just as much as women;

¨Keep in touch with him. If he requires full reporting of your location to the minute, then ask for the same in return. He will soon get tired of it;

¨ Try to speak in advance and “neatly” about upcoming meetings where you will be alone. Remind him of these meetings, but by the way. Quite directly and fleetingly.

Reasons why a guy is jealous

But what to do if we are faced with the problem of jealousy? Why did the guy become jealous? Let's deal with the issues that concern us in order.

The reasons for jealousy in guys can be very diverse.

Let's highlight the most common.

Reason 1

There have been bad relationships in the past. If a guy didn’t work out with his ex, she didn’t want a relationship with him, cheated on him, etc. - then the guy will feel disadvantaged. Constant worries will accompany your relationship.

To solve such a problem, first of all, time and your sensitivity are needed. For a guy, your caress and care is necessary, like oxygen. But don't be a babysitter! You should have time for yourself and your friends.

Reason 2

The girl has a lot of friends. Especially if these male friends and your boyfriend don't know much about them. He begins to come up with a rather vivid scenario for the development of a walk, if you just said that you met a friend by chance and went to a cafe for tea.

Treat the scenes of jealousy that occur as a natural experience. Tell more what you think about this or that friend, how you met, what you talk about most often. The best solution would be, of course, meeting your boyfriend and friends in free space.

Reason 3

If a guy is jealous, then he is the owner. He tries to possess you, even at a very great distance. You are already tired of constant calls and SMS, and he still says that he is jealous. This is one of the reasons possessive guys get jealous: the idea that you can be with someone other than him (and it doesn't matter to him who is next to you, a guy or a girl).

If there is no love, run away from this person as far as possible. After all, very soon you will get tired of being a girl "with a bell" and such a relationship will only be a burden to you. In such cases, very often girls become hostages of their own relationships, from which it becomes more and more difficult to get out every hour.

Reason 4

Mistrust. In each person, we deserve trust by actions, but there are people who do not trust anyone. Even to your loved ones. The guy is very emotional about your trips to the club or walks with girlfriends without him, even if he does not tell you about it.

Include him in your plans as often as possible, go out with your friends and be open to frank conversation. Trust him. Trust him with all your innermost secrets and he will “open” his soul to you over time.

Be honest with your boyfriend, let him know that he is dear to you. Girls, talk to your guys. Let them know what you expect from them, tell them more often how wonderful they are, and then there will never be jealousy in your relationship.

Almost all girls accept the jealousy of a young man as a pleasant addition to the expression of his emotions - if jealousy is manifested, it means that he loves a lot. There is some truth in this statement, but only too insignificant, since jealousy is considered a destructive and destructive feeling.

The origins of jealousy are present in personal complexes - the guy begins to be jealous, because. fears that he is not very good for the girl, feels constant fear and waits for her to leave him soon. Such impressions are sometimes manifested clearly, often these beliefs are formed at the subconscious level, preventing a person from building their relationships. To decide how to relate to jealousy, you can only try to understand the motives of the young man.

Jealousy is considered quite appropriate and adequate response to the girl's misbehavior - she has the opportunity to behave defiantly, flirt with other young people, spend a lot of time in the company of other admirers. As a result, once your relationship has already reached the level of a serious relationship, and understand the fact that now you are obliged to show all your sexuality and looseness only to him. Don't confuse friendly feelings with cheeky behavior.

What to do if a guy is jealous? Jealous people must be fought with their own weapons - try to behave in the same way, just be his mirror image. It is very possible that, having been in the form of a “victim of a jealous woman,” he will change his behavior and correct himself. You can hint to him that this relationship is not what you planned for when you started dating him.

Since he is powerless to cope with his problems, then offer support - a heart-to-heart talk, role-playing games, psychological counseling. During the period of attacks of jealousy, behave indifferently and calmly, since your response in the form of apologetic speeches is just what he is waiting for. Help your loved one overcome the complexes within yourself, prove to him that for you he is long-awaited and the best of the best.

It is a completely different matter when a guy is jealous without an excuse - he is just a pathological owner who is unable to allow the loss of a loved one. These people can be dangerous, especially if jealousy is mixed with an explosive temper - and close to assault. Once you have found at least scanty signs that the guy has become jealous of you and it is difficult for him to control himself, or there have been incidents, then immediately leave him.

And this must be done carefully, without striking blows to pride with deafening tantrums and scandals. It is most preferable to enlist the support of the best friends, brother or dad, who, if anything, will be able to help you and scare the jealous. We hope that our tips have helped you answer the question: "What to do if a guy is jealous."