How to tame a man: Preparatory steps for taming a man. How to inspire a husband to exploits How to get a man to act in a relationship

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Instruction

Love yourself. Starting with this simple task, you will put a lot in its place. Do not sacrifice yourself for him, do not neglect your interests. Entrust a few things to a man, and you will have free time to take care of yourself. A beautiful, well-groomed woman who likes herself is much more attractive to a man than a driven horse.

Do not exhaust yourself with work and household chores. After returning from work, do not rush to grab on to everything in a row. Enlist a man to help - you are just as tired for this day as he is. If you can't assign permanent duties to him, make different requests every night. It is unlikely that your man will refuse you.

Sometimes be inaccessible. All men are hunters by nature, and with your independence and feigned indifference, you will only warm up interest in yourself. Show coldness, and then suddenly become playful in a crowded place. Flirt with him while you're out in the open - let him count the minutes until he's alone with you.

Make him jealous a little from time to time. "Accidentally" miss a call from him, or during a conversation with him, say that you have a call on the second line. After a party with friends or a visit, tell how much fun it was there, especially during competitions and couples games. But do not overdo it, causing jealousy. Remember that your job is to make relationships stronger, not ruin them.

Take compliments the right way. Do not say that the dress is old and that you have nothing to wear if your partner approved of you in it! By doing this, you lower your self-esteem and question your attractiveness in his eyes. Just smile and thank your man, even if you don't share his enthusiasm.

And finally, always remember that you are a woman. Do not carry heavy bags with him, even if it is not hard for you at all. Stop screwing in light bulbs, opening beer bottles, cleaning clogged sinks, hammering nails. Especially if your man is at home! You should seem to him a weak, defenseless creature that you want to love and protect. And be a feminist in those moments when no one is there for you.

Tip 6: How to make a guy afraid of losing you

In our cruel world it is difficult to find a truly close person, especially for girls. This is all because girls are required to lead a more moderate and quiet life, and they simply have nowhere to meet a good young man.

I don’t know, I’m confused ... I immediately apologize for the too long text .. We met more than a year ago in social networks (at that time I was married). Immediately found mutual language. We talked almost 24 hours a day. After some time they started to call. I fell head over heels in love with him ... He either jokingly or so says that he loves me too (joking or not - I don’t know, since he asks me a lot about girls, how to behave with them). The first time we quarreled with him was when he asked me a question of an intimate plan and my answer did not satisfy him. Two weeks of calm - and we communicate again. Then his computer broke down - he was not online for 2 months. I was already making new acquaintances, and then, like a bolt from the blue, he appeared again and was the first to write to me. everything turned upside down again. Conversations became warmer, sometimes they confessed their love to each other. The second time they quarreled when my husband accidentally stumbled upon our correspondence with him, he was rude to him - and my love thought that I was playing him. We didn't speak for two weeks. Now I have already gone to reconciliation, wrote to him, asked him to explain to me the reason why he disappeared - he swore at me, but the next day he became warmer, said that he was leaving soon for two months and did not want our communication to end. I was waiting for him. he arrived - again he wrote to me first. In real life, my family broke up, divorced my husband. He supported me in every possible way. By the way, he lives 50 km from my city and I have repeatedly hinted at him just a friendly meeting, he always excused himself with the fact that at a meeting he would be shy and not know how to behave with me. I also know that in my city there lives a girl with whom he has known for a very long time, her grandmother lives in the same village as him. in September, he again left for Russia, but I found the opportunity to call him cheaply and kept in touch every day (he shouted that I should not call him, did not spend money - to which I replied that he was more valuable to me than any money) when he arrived, he replenished I got a bill, in general, everything that I spent, he returned to me. Everything seems to be fine, they gave each other access to their VK pages. and one fine day he tells me that he needs to come to my city to get a passport. I was delighted, I thought he would come to my work to say hello .. well, or finally ask me to help him find the passport office. BUT .... he did not come, he asked for it in the one with which he is more familiar than with me. and spent the whole day with her. When he left, he called me - I could not stand it - I told him everything that I was waiting for him, shouted to him that I knew that he was with her, but you could just come up to say hello. I don’t know who was offended by whom more, but his number becomes unavailable, my page is blacklisted ... New Year I know he celebrated in our city with her. I began to try to live life without him ... BUT .. he wrote to me again, we reconciled again. he calls again. that's it for this moment when I type this text, I know he is with her, but he called me three times already. that is, he sits with her or near her and calls me, asks what I'm doing and how my mood is. Yesterday I had another chance to casually say that I love or at least loved him. to which he said "This is not news to me, I could already say something smarter." In general, he does not believe in my love, he says that we are just friends ... I don’t know how I should perceive him .. on your part - do I mean anything to him ??? I never write or call him first now ... I know that he is sleeping with that girl, and not only with her ... the guy is walking, so to speak .. but when he already opens his eyes and admits to himself that he is still something really experiencing me .. how to lead me in this situation? how to make it work already? here on Sunday he again leaves to earn money for two months .. I don’t know .. what should I do?

But here comes out just the same pitfall that we have already mentioned - you begin to “sit down” on it, constantly think about it, sucking on the further strategy of behavior in your head, and as a result, you make mistakes, give yourself away and your feelings - and all the efforts made are going to hell.

This, of course, should not be allowed under any circumstances.

Therefore, we kill two birds with one stone. In order not to fall in love with a man even more, and we need to be approximately on the same level with him in terms of the level of love, and you are already ahead of him, and the further construction of our “insidious plan” only aggravates the situation, we need to switch to someone yet...

This is certainly a necessary action, because. Firstly, you distract your thoughts from him with another action, secondly, you hone your skills, and thirdly, you bring yourself closer to the cherished goal of getting him himself.

Of course, one of the men at the same time falls under the distribution, but if you surround yourself with at least 2-3 more men and at the same time, naturally, you will not give any of them high hopes with your behavior, then everything will go smoothly. Moreover, we have a goal, and we are not going to give it up.

Once again I will say about the result - I seriously approached the choice of my husband, my girlfriend did the same, we ourselves chose men for ourselves and “wounded” them, only a friend with more difficulties, I with less, came to a positive result.

In these articles I will try to bring our joint experience together, the result was worth it. Now we have happy families, and we did it absolutely everything ourselves, and our men think that they did everything. Of course, we are proud of our results, looking at our sleek, imposing business men.

Okay, that's all the lyrics, now the strategy... Getting to action by taming. I roughly broke everything down into points, what we need and what my friend and I did for this. Of course, as in any love affair, an individual approach is needed, but this will have to be dealt with in the process. Go...

First feature. Starts to fear losing you

By your behavior and the actual situation, you make it clear to the man that you have many potential admirers (for this, in addition to distracting thoughts about him, these 2-3 suitors were needed). It is very desirable to have 2-3 fans for yourself, because then they will provide us with invaluable assistance in the process of enslaving our man. He must understand that you have many to choose from and many would like to have you.

Here you can slightly, as if by chance, warm up the situation with phrases such as “today at the university 2 classmates quarreled because of me, well, what do they all need from me, I never gave any of them any reason”, naturally, emphasizing on the fact that all this boiled in your soul and accidentally splashed out, a kind of “cry from the soul”.

And then, already with further joint happy life, there will always be an opportunity to once again poke our dear “so many men ran after me, and I, a fool, married you”, and for him the fact that you had many fans is very important.

Another good trick - in response to his behavior that you did not like, you can transparently hint that your attitude towards him is getting worse from this ... After this, a man may have fears that he will not lose you for a long time, and that you choose someone else from among your many fans, you let him know that he is losing you ... Well, further on the situation, fantasize, tame, think, introduce your other chips, but the main thing is not to overdo it.

Second feature. Make him think about you all the time.

He must constantly think about you, strive for even greater communication with you, call, write SMS, showing all this in his behavior, in general, be bored.

Here we already include other chips. I consider smells to be the main one (we have already talked about their huge role in relationships). This is generally the most powerful psychological move, even unconscious associative thinking is based on smells in a person. Meaning - everything around should remind him of you and evoke associations associated with you. To do this, you need to pick up and constantly use the same perfume, the smell of which, accordingly, your man should like.

Perfumes, of course, should be of very high quality and not tart, but so that their faint smell lasts as long as possible. You just have to sprinkle a little on the things that surround him. The ideal option, of course, is to apply them, if possible, at his home, for example, sofa upholstery, mattress, carpet, they will retain the smell of perfume for a very long time, and accordingly, this smell, which should be almost imperceptible, but present, will remind a man about you.

Paper retains smells best and for the longest time, it can keep them for months, and you need to use this chip on it, a paper calendar, but a diary is generally ideal.

Give him some little things for any holidays that your man is constantly used in everyday life. They will also constantly remind him of you. If a little flirting is already allowed in your relationship, I suggest including such a gift, as if with humor, that I made to my future husband.

Without any reason, I gave him a washcloth with the words that I am jealous of his old washcloth, because it touches him. Then she added that I would probably be jealous of this one too, because she would be allowed to touch him, but I couldn’t before the wedding. But our relationship at that time allowed me to make such a hint, as if in jest, and an occasion to think.

Always create some kind of intrigue. A man should always have some kind of mystery associated with you. Tame, fantasize further.

Third feature. How to make a man take care of you

A man should want to look after you, think about you, give you gifts, do something for you.

Everything is simple here. My man guessed it himself, but my friend had to come up with a legend that she needed to arouse the jealousy of her ex, and she directly asked him to look after her for show.

He decided to help, began to court ... and got. In the process of performing this theatrical role, he had to do everything not to do under her dictation, his behavior at that time was completely controlled by my girlfriend and she directly told him about it - and hug, and gently press him to her, and sweetly gently communicate, and walk under pen ... well, in the epilogue, to excite even more jealousy, she also offered to kiss in the presence of the former, and she knows how to do this sooooo well.

This circus continued for about 2-3 months, the game on both sides was very realistic, their behavior did not cause any doubts among outside viewers, and in the end, everything, fuck, he hit ...

Her man completely, with all his firebrand, had a crush on her, she turned him on, awakened love for herself. And all this happened only due to the fact that she steadfastly held on, did not show her feelings and her emotions in a relationship. After all, any mistake in this game could be fatal for her ... If she really showed feelings for him with her behavior, nothing would have happened.

Here she was saved by complete concentration on the goal, although this game cost her a lot of effort. How many times she literally howled - “How I want a real relationship, really hug him, snuggle up, and suck him at home for hours, and not just minutes and in public.” But she endured everything and eventually won. He really wanted to get and achieve it.

I already rode my man with might and main, because. My man, by his breed, is much softer, he fell for the game much faster, and already in a relationship I felt some kind of response from him. But she didn't let herself get too close. I have already cut into the word “ME” in the lexicon - I like gifts, I am pleased when they do something for me, I love it, but all these “me”, “for me”. “I” were pronounced not in the voice of an overgrown bitch, but in the gentle voice of an angelic, innocent cherub, with childish naivety and inexperience in his eyes. And it all worked!

And what is most interesting, the man liked to fulfill all these little whims! Well, I impressed with my behavior, playing childish naivety, childishly making happy eyes in response to his actions or gifts, depicting naive simplicity. And our men were generally unaware that we, back then, 2 students of the psychology department, armed with knowledge of psychology and female cunning, simply lure them into our networks and build the scenario of our relationships and communication ourselves, because WE DECIDED SO. We decided to tame them.

The fourth feature. Resent him

Take offense at him, make him apologize to you, if possible, bring the situation to recognition.

When you already feel that a man has already got hooked, then you can already turn on this method of dominating him. Therefore, find a good reason to be offended, well, make him apologize. Here you can already connect your close friends to help yourself, who will also morally finish their behavior and communication with him. We need a result - for a man to come and start apologizing.

This is also a very powerful psychological move, with which you can start a full-fledged relationship. After all, a man prepares for this apology in advance, works out in his head the structure of a conversation and communication with you, possible options for its development. This is generally psychologically, on a subconscious level, a very strong action, on an emotional level it is equivalent to the emotions that occur in a person at the first declaration of love to a woman.

The main thing is that communication takes place looking eye to eye with a friend. All the laws of psychology come into play here - after all, everything starts with negative emotions, a man is turned on, and does not know what your reaction will be - positive or negative. I repeat once again that a man who confesses his love experiences exactly the same emotional outburst as when he apologizes.

And here a huge plus is that the plot swings according to your scenario from negative to positive, your behavior decides everything, well, only he doesn’t know your scenario and is very worried. First, we escalate and wind up events, bring the emotional intensity of communication to the limit, and then we forgive him. If all this is done correctly, then at the same stage, after an emotional shake-up or in its process, you can bring the situation and, accordingly, the man to a declaration of love.

Fifth feature. We squeeze it and keep the intrigue

Now all the trump cards are already in your hands and, of course, guided by the situation and the behavior of the man, we further squeeze him. For example, we push such a topic that he will not be able to make you fall in love with him, or simply express doubt about this when communicating, such as "you probably would not be able to" Well, etc. there are a lot of options for the development of events, everything is in the hands of a woman.

Something I can throw and more.

As already mentioned, constantly keep the intrigue. For example, “There is one quality that I am very afraid of in you” or something similar, but, of course, we don’t say the answer, and the man begins to think what kind of quality it is. And according to the script, this quality may not exist at all, but he will think and look for it, and this is very important. It will also not be out of place to sometimes express doubts about some of his qualities - for example, “You probably don’t know how to love for real, be sincere and faithful, build real relationships” This is a test for lice-), and psychology turns on again - he, of course , will try by his behavior to show you the opposite, that you are mistaken and do not understand people at all.

A man will try with all his might to prove to you that this is not so. Here you can also put all the men in one pile - like, they are not romantic, they don’t know how to feel, appreciate, love, be faithful and devoted, they all need only one thing, I don’t believe in them, well, drive the same heresy further into in the same spirit. Again, by his behavior, he will try to convince you of your mistake and prove that he is not at all like everyone else.

Always play on such contradictions, this is a very strong argument. And when a man successfully proves that you are wrong, not all men are the same and he is generally not like everyone else, your eyes gradually open, you begin to realize that you were wrong, that he was special and was right about himself, and you are stupid and he enlightened you and opened your eyes to the truth.

Yesterday, a former classmate came to me, so to speak, to “pour out her soul” and ask for professional advice. Her relationship with her common-law husband has completely gone wrong, she only plays the role of a housewife, there is no question of love, gifts and confessions. There are suspicions that he is dating another woman (or women). Together they live almost three years.

When I asked about how their relationship began, how he courted, how he behaved, she replied that he did not court her! We met, then it quickly came to the bed, and then (also very quickly) she moved in with him and they began to live together. Moreover, the man does not live alone, but with a 10-year-old son. In fact, he needed a housewife who would put the house in order, look after her son and take care of them (this is to be honest).

He simply brought her to his house, he does not intend to marry (he is already satisfied with everything, as he says), he has other women on the side, and my girlfriend is simply convenient for him. Unfortunately, this is the truth of life. This man could not fall in love with her, because he did not seek her, did not invest anything in her, did not try her. She herself presented everything to him on a silver platter, and quickly and immediately. The hunter had not even had time to load his gun yet, and the prey had already come running by itself and lay down under his feet. And on this moment the situation is very difficult to correct, it would be easier to initially behave differently. Understanding the rules of the romantic game is the most important thing in relationships with men.

How to make a man chase you

It is important that a man seek a woman. And so it was from time immemorial - in order to achieve the location of a woman, a man had to make an effort. Women portrayed an "impregnable fortress", and men had to attack this fortress, showing courage, ingenuity and perseverance. The problem is that in our time this subtle science is almost forgotten. And that's why there are so many divorces and unhappy couples because men and women do not have the opportunity to play their natural role and enjoy it. A very small part of women today "play by the rules", enjoy relationships with men and enjoy their attention. The other, much larger part, are at a loss and do not understand what, after all, these men need and why their personal life will not improve in any way.

Emancipation radically changed the outer side of the relationship between a man and a woman. Many women do not understand at all why they should move away from a man and force him to seek her if she is madly in love with him and he is the man of her dreams. But these rules are created by nature itself and are written in our genetic code, while the rules of the sexual revolution and emancipation are invented by people and are written only in books, newspapers and magazines.

A man likes to woo a woman!

Even if at the same time they say that they do not like games and they are not at all interested in seeking a woman, when it comes down to it, they instantly join the game and they like it. And they, like women, also enjoy this game. Such a game gives them the opportunity to amuse their pride, and also to understand whether he really likes this woman so much.

And, most importantly, this gives him the opportunity to follow his masculine nature - to be active. A man starts his hunt, plans, acts and gets the desired result. An easy victory is quickly forgotten, since it gives little pleasure. And what he went for a long time and stubbornly pursued will bring him a sense of his own power and great joy.

Imagine that you decide to enjoy some delicious dish. Even without touching it, you are already in anticipation of pleasure, and then you get pleasure, savoring every bite. And imagine that I will offer you this dish, but only encapsulated, like a medicine. No need to waste time eating it, just swallowed the capsule and that's it, the dish is already in your stomach. You do not want? And why? And because when you swallow it instantly, you will not be able to feel its taste. Also with relationships. A man can feel their taste only with a gradual approach.

A man is biologically irresistibly attracted to a woman, slowing down his progress towards the goal, a woman gives time to turn what is happening between two biological units into a Relationship between two People. Playing inaccessibility is a must, of course, if you want make a man chase you. This will help the man to invest more in the relationship and appreciate you. When he has to work hard for a relationship, they will become valuable to him, and he will cherish them.

Playing impregnable does not mean showing coldness and complete indifference. When you mistreat a man and ignore him, this is not a game of impregnability. This is stupidity that will not bring the desired result. Only those men who do not value themselves at all will be with you. It is necessary to demonstrate not coldness and "abstruseness", but the joy of communication and lightness. Respect the man and treat him well. Sincerely thank him for what he does for you, and then he will love you even more.

It is important to take your time and not commit yourself only to this man after three dates or after the first intimacy. No need to quickly confess your love to him, say that you are crazy about him and are just waiting for his call, around the clock on duty near the phone. Always remember that as soon as a man realizes that you are completely in his hands, he will begin to get used to you, as to his usual environment, and the process of conquest and courtship will end there.

He should like the process of conquering your heart, so give him portions of tenderness and mercy unexpectedly, thereby inspiring him to even greater feats. Flirt with him, play, you can read about this in detail in the article. When he suddenly weakens his attention to you, do not start chasing and catching up with him. If a man is really interested in you, he will be there and will think about how to win your heart.

The main, one might say, the most important principle of the game of inaccessibility is "light starvation". Always leave a man a little hungry. Don't let him "overeat" you. Do not overfeed him with your care and love, keep a small distance and keep space for his maneuvers.

Spend quality time with a man, putting all your charm and inner warmth into communication with him. Do not hide from him that you need him and that you feel good with him. But at the same time, always leave him a little hungry. End the conversation on time and leave on time too. That is, when he is at the peak of joy and pleasure, and not when the peak has already passed and he involuntarily begins to think about when you will finally leave so that he can relax and think.

Relationships that have had a long period of courtship are stronger and more durable than fast-paced relationships. It is important to go through all the stages, and not just merge with each other physically. And do not try to please a man and do what you absolutely do not like. Pleasing will not lead you to love and happiness. Take a step towards a man only when he has taken two steps towards you. That is, take only retaliatory steps, and do not step on it actively and aggressively.

And always remember that if you run after a man, he will definitely run away from you. As soon as you turn around and run away from him, he will also turn around and run after you. Of course, if he needs you and if he has sympathy and feelings for you. And if you don't run, then don't. So, all your life you would only do that you ran after him and tried to hold him. And in the end, he would have run away anyway, and you would have wasted your health and years of life.

Love easily and be loved! And let men conquer you and perform feats for you! And in order to get to know their psychology better, I advise you to read R. Rezepov's book "The Truth About Men, Which Most Women Don't Know". You can download the book Here .

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Men are hunters who love the chase.

Over the years, I've spent more time than I can admit chasing men, trying to convince a man that he likes me. And it's terrible. With each rejection, I felt worse.

I did not understand what I was doing wrong when I first called the men, offered to meet and showed interest.

Whenever I immediately took matters into my own hands in relationships with guys, it didn’t end well. And that went on until I realized a few things about how different men are wired than us women.

People get pissed off when I say that men are hunters who love to chase. And I understand why.

At first glance, this sounds somewhat humiliating. One word "chase" gives the impression that men are not worthy of women, not good enough not to chase after them.

Or that they are masochists who like it when a woman is cold and contemptuous of them. Or that a woman is like a stupid deer hunted down by a hunter. Or that a woman can't attract a man, so he has to chase after her.

But all this is far from the truth!

Men swear that they like it when a woman they like shows them her interest. And they don't lie.

But there is a big difference between how men show their interest and how women do it. Attractiveness for a man consists of two factors: sexual attraction and effort.

And that's where the "chase" is.

If a man does not feel physically attracted to you, then he will not fight for your attention. Although at the same time he can have sex with you and chat for hours. But he won't want to go beyond "friends with privileges."

The second very important and obscure part of this equation is that that a man experiences happiness when he achieves something.

In a relationship, achievement for a man is: make his woman happy, marry her, provide for her and children.

In the early stages of a relationship, achievement for a man is getting a girl to agree on some little things - and this will show her interest. Even something as simple as taking her number, getting her to reply to his text, asking her out on a date.

And all these small achievements constitute the "chase". And why is this method not suitable for women?

This is where the problem is. In most areas of our lives, this approach is ideal. Do you want a job? Go ahead and build your own career. Do you want an apartment? Save money and buy. Do you want a man? Uuu…uh…

It is a mistake to think that in relationships we should do the same as in other areas of life.- that is, to make a titanic effort.

Because too much effort in a relationship sabotages it. Firstly, because the energy of achievements and aspirations is masculine, not feminine.

He can't get you if you hang on to him, tell him he's sexy and you want to meet him next Friday at 8pm. There is no riddle. You take on the entire male role.

Secondly, when a woman seeks a man, it completely deprives her of any power, and creates the feeling that she is just desperately trying to find at least someone.

Yes, I also thought that showing your interest to a man is a sign of confidence, not despair. But when I dug deeper, I realized that the reason for this behavior is really desperation, because I really wanted the guy to be interested in me. And if he refused, then the day was ruined.

Well, you know that feeling when someone asks for a compliment or your approval - you automatically resist.

A man's feelings cannot develop if you stand over him, hands on his waist, and ask if he is in love with you or not.

When I stopped chasing men, they seemed to have lost their drug. And I noticed that the quality of the men who started courting me increased dramatically. The best thing was that I no longer felt like I was begging someone to pay attention to me.

This is good compensation for changing my tactics.

So how do you get him to chase you?

Using her natural female magnetism to show him her interest without doing anything. In practice, this means being happy, playful, flirtatious and receptive to his advances. He must seek your time and attention, and you must allow it and enjoy his attention.

When a man wants you, don't give up everything for him. Do not stop moving towards your goals and dreams, give up your hobby and make it the center of your universe.

And also believe that the right man will still achieve you. Believe that if a man gives up, it means that he is simply not for you or it is not yet time. Let him go.

Stop proving your worth or explaining why you should be together. The right person will be so enamored with you that they won't want to let you go.