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Marital fidelity is the basis of a strong family, great and lasting love, and happiness for children. All people, entering into marriage, creating a family nest, believe that their chosen one is the only one. And love will live long. But, unfortunately, the world is full of temptations, and love is hard to keep in everyday life.

Very often in our world adultery happens. Sometimes they are unexpected, sometimes they are predictable, but they are always destructive if families fall apart because of them. It’s not bad to think in time to protect yourself, your family from betrayal, from casual relationships. Conspiracies and prayers for fidelity from betrayal will help protect the marriage.

What prayers and which saints are best addressed in this case. Any prayer has power, and even words from the heart will also help. Prayers directed to the Almighty, to our Savior, have even greater protective and creative power.

Prayer for the fidelity of husband and wife to God

“Great and generous God, creating all kinds of things with Your word, setting the lights in heaven and hanging the earth on nothing, on the sixth day he formed a man from the dust of the earth, and breathed into him the breath of life, then give him a wife to help him, and command: grow, and multiply and fill the earth. Ubo himself, merciful Lord, now remember Your commandment about the multiplication of the human race and look with a merciful eye from Your holy dwelling on us, Your servants (names), the union of marriage from You united and Your help asking: grant us love for each other and about children of grace, may we be fruitful, and may we see our sons even to the third and fourth generation, and may we reach the desired old age, after the end of our belly into the Kingdom of Heaven, let us enter the goodwill and goodness of our Lord Jesus Christ, with Him glory befits You, honor and worship, with the Holy Spirit forever and ever. Amen".

Prayer to the Most Holy Theotokos before the icon "Fadeless Color"

The icon of the Blessed Virgin Mary "Fadeless Color" is one of the most beautiful, radiating tenderness, light and joy. Prayer helps in solving family problems, gives understanding between spouses, helps to preserve love. Regardless of the fact that the image is female, every believer can pray in front of him:

“Blessed Virgin Mother of God, we worship Your most pure image, we sing a song of praise to You, we bring You needs, grief and tears, You, O our meek Intercessor, Earthly sorrows are so close to You, accept our sighs, help us and save us from troubles. Let us tirelessly and with tenderness call Thee: Rejoice, Mother of God, Unfading Flower.

“We magnify Thee, Blessed Virgin, and honor Your holy image, by which we heal our illnesses and raise our souls to God”

Loyalty conspiracies

I already wrote that you personally should not make a conspiracy for love, for the belonging of a person. You can read how harmful the magic of love is and in what cases it is unacceptable. But it is one thing to talk a person to yourself, and another to work on an atmosphere of love and limit your loved one from the influence of other spells. So conspiracies for the fidelity of a husband or wife have the right to be, this is not prohibited.

It is better to do conspiracies on the growing moon on the male day of the week for the husband and on the female for the wife. Women are also greedy for revelry, otherwise where do betrayals come from.

Spell of fidelity to husband with wedding rings

One of the strongest conspiracies for fidelity are wedding rings - a symbol of fidelity and matrimony. Your rings are needed for the ceremony: yours and your husband's.
Tie the rings with red wool thread. Dip them in a glass of holy water. For three days every day, say the words of the conspiracy:

“As these rings are together, so the servant of God (or the name of the husband) with the servant of God (or your name) will be together.
May neither resentment, nor quarrels, nor crooked conversations, nor illnesses, nor evil people, nor the damned demon separate us.
As she said, it will be so for many years and forever.
Amen."

After three days, remove the rings from the water, put them on a church candle and let it burn out completely. In the meantime, you will read a prayer, to the Mother of God or any other. It is recommended to all women in order to avoid the "spree" of her husband. As you can see, there is no malicious intent in this ritual and the conspiracy will only work to strengthen family happiness.

Conspiracy from cheating on candles

This conspiracy to the flame of candles is considered no less weak. After all, we know what magic and power our words in prayer have. This rite will help you keep your husband faithful. For the ceremony you will need:

• two church candles;
• white scarf;
• husband's hair

The ceremony is done during the absence of the husband's home. On one write your name on the other - your husband. Cross yourself, read the "Our Father", light candles and cross them too.
Burn the husband's hair over the male candle, collect the ashes. Read over the ashes a prayer three times:

“How a burning fire burns the hair of my dear (name),
So all his lust for (the name of the rival or the girls) would have burned.
Let his heart not beat at a meeting with a homeowner.
Let him yearn for his native home, for his wife and children.
As a candle melts and cries, so would my beloved melt for me, his wife (name).
Would live with me in love and fidelity. May it be so!"

Burn your hair over your candle, collect the ashes. Mix all ashes from women's and men's hair together. Extinguish the candles, wrap the leftovers in a white scarf and hide in the closet where the husband's underwear is stored.

Everything. The power of the conspiracy is very effective, here is hair and flame and. And know that you yourself participate in this ceremony and other men will be indifferent to you.

Conclusion

As you can see, all the prayers and conspiracies that I have prepared do not carry burdensome power. They are based on love for everything in the world, they work for creation.

From black magic, rituals for a man are now available to everyone, which forever bind him to one woman - his wife or partner, deprive him of the ability to be a man with other women, that is, turn a man into a full man with others. It is a great evil to deprive a man of his nature! People, dear women, never perform such rituals, even if your man has annoyed you in full and is worthy of this. Remember that everything will return to you in the form of evil, troubles, problems.

So that spouses or partners do not cheat on each other, there is no reason to go “left”, it is important to avoid mistakes. Be interesting for your soul mate, it is important to take care of the atmosphere at home, not to be indifferent. And then your life will become a joy! And cherish your love, keep it all the days and moments.

If a person is interested in love magic, he is interested in learning as much as possible about love spells. They are used in order to bind the person you need to yourself, to evoke love feelings in him.

For the sake of love, people are ready to do anything. It seems that there is enough strength to move mountains and go through the largest deserts in the world. The real pleasure and happiness is when the loved one returns your feelings, but what if the one you love with all your heart does not want to be near you? It brings unbearable pain. It seems that life is over, and nothing bright and good awaits ahead. Is there a way out of such a difficult situation? Yes, it certainly exists, only now, not everyone will have the courage to try to get out of the situation in this way. Now we're talking about love spells.

Return the love of her husband

To return your husband's love to yourself, go out on a clear, moonlit night to the fence of your house. Stand facing the moon and clasp both hands in front of your chest. Speak the plot quietly, but firmly, without stopping and without getting lost in words:

My Mother Moon, you live on soft clouds, in starry heavenly chambers. I will submit to you, I will bow to you from the waist. Take all my anguish, attach it to your husband's temple, let him think of me, suffer, do not forget night and day, dry, yearn for me, for his married wife. My charms, charms, grow, grow stronger like sponges, rise, throw yourself at the servant of God (name). Let him cry and grieve without me, like a dove circling around a dove, it would be sweeter than wine, hotter than fire, and he would be near me all the time. My word is strong, my work is sculpted. Key, lock, tongue. Amen. Amen. Amen.

Love spell through dew

Love, created on the dew on the day of Ivan Kupala, will never pass. Collect this dew on July 7th. To do this, you should get up very early and be in the field and in the forest until the heavenly dawn. They collect dew in a vessel from which no one has ever drunk. Collect dew from leaves, bushes and grass directly into a new bowl. Then you will be surprised at how much dew happens at this time. Having collected the dew, stand facing the sunrise, cross yourself three times, wash your face, chest and knees with dew. Then say loudly, loudly and confidently:

In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Doseleva was under Agryan-tsar half the land in the water. Water descends from heaven, and in heaven the Lord God ecu. You, Ivan Kupala, bring dew, tears, longing, dryness for me, for God's servant (name), for God's servant (name). I wash my cheeks with dew, I open ardent love. I, God's servant (name), with God's servant (name) forever and ever. And as long as there is dew in God's world, no one will separate our bodies. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Bride's prayer for a happy marriage

Lady Mother of God, Queen of Heaven, deliver me in my marriage, save and have mercy on me from my husband's beating, from the anger of my mother-in-law, from the abuse of my sister-in-law, from illness and poverty, from the jealousy of the light. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

For love

I, the servant of God (name), will go out into the light. More beautiful, better than me nowhere. I will go to an open field, to a wide expanse, there I will find 77 stone ovens. On those stoves, fiery horns, hot horns, oohs, sighs, love turmoil: 77 oohs, 77 sighs, ahs, suffering, day and night experiences, love yearning and impatience. Get up, go, find the servant of God (name), drag him, lead him to me, to God's servant (name). I will fill him, I will lure him, I will take him as my betrothed. An hour, half an hour, minutes, twist, mix, throw yourself at his heart and liver. He would think about me, he would not forget, he would not drink in food and drink, he would miss, yearn, cry and grieve for me, God's servant (name), lament with bitter weeping, and when he sees, so that he would not let go of himself. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

Love spell for 12 years

On Mount Savoy, at its height, grows an iron-tooth oak. On that oak there is a hollow, round and large, in that hollow there is an expensive place. There is a bed in that expensive place. No one can lie on a wooden bed. And there lies anguish, an enemy force. Everyone who came up to her, she withered everyone. Oh, longing longing, dry dryness, call you, longing, your whole family, gather you, longing, all your fruit, from old to small, from fathers-mothers, from grandfathers-great-grandfathers, from grandchildren, great-grandchildren, from gossips - doves. All of you, dryness, aches, get up, go, find the servant of God (name), dry him, break him, stick him in his heart: longing, wailing, dryness, suffering, jealousy, attention, love for me, for God's servant (name) . If he had lived, he would have grieved, he would have walked during the day - he kept on his mind, slept at night - he saw in a dream, he took me by the hand, hugged me with the other hand, pressed me to his heart, kissed me on the lips, 12 years of God wept and suffered for me, nor I didn't forget one minute. As I said, so I punished. Key, lock, tongue. Amen. Amen. Amen.

From girlish loneliness

Go to Pokrov to the balcony or to the street, so that you stand in the open air. Raise both hands to the sky and say:

Bride Bride, Queen of Heaven, take me out of the brides, take off the heavy cross from me, bless me on the crown. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen. Usually a girl gets married in the same year. This ceremony is carried out secretly, in complete solitude.

For loyalty and love

Let your hair down, barefoot and without any belts, stand facing your doorstep, but not outside, but inside the apartment. Bow down and read:

Father brownie, call my husband home. Call him to the threshold: in the morning, afternoon and evening, on a black moonlit night, on a black moonless night. You send nine winds, nine whirlwinds after him. Let them find him, even walking, even standing or sleeping, or for a drink, or for a hedgehog. Meet him from the front, shoot him with longing in his heart. So that he could neither live, nor be, nor during the day, nor at night to spend the night with my rival (name). Everything would keep me in mind, would see me in a short dream. As this threshold always stands in its place, dries and cracks, so would my husband (name) stand in front of me, crackle, squeal, dry. Bless my words, God. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

To be happy in marriage, they pray to the holy martyr Tryphon: “O holy martyr of Christ Tryphon, quick helper to all who run to you and pray before your holy image, quick-obedient intercessor! Hear now and every hour the prayer of us, unworthy of your servants, who honor your holy memory in every place.

For you, the servant of Christ, you yourself promised to ecu before your departure from your perishable life to pray for us to the Lord and ask Him for this gift: and if anyone in any need and sorrow begins your holy name with calls, let him be delivered from every pretense of evil. And sometimes you, the daughter of the king in Rome, the city of Rome, healed the tormented ecu from the devil, save us from his fierce machinations all the days of our stomach, especially on the strange day of our last gasp, intercede for us, when the dark eyes of the evil demons surround and frighten us : then be our helper and speedy chaser of evil demons, and the leader of the Kingdom of Heaven, where you are now standing with the faces of the saints at the Throne of God, pray to the Lord that he may also make us partakers of the ever-present joy of joy, and with you we will be worthy to glorify the Father and the Son and Holy Comforter of the Spirit forever. Amen.

From any separation from a loved one

Grab a live fish with your hand right in the water and say:

Just like a fish cannot live without water, just like a person cannot live without food, so that my dear, servant of God (name), could not live without me, servants of God (name), could never go far from me. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

Conspiracy for strong love

Read on drink and food:

In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. To the icon with the face, to the rival with the ridge, to the husband, the servant of God, with the shoulder. If he loved me and didn’t look enough, he would say that he would not talk to me, would sleep with me, but would not sleep, would kiss me, but would not kiss. As a hungry person thinks about food, so would my husband dream of me, of his married wife, God's servant (name). Be you, my words, picky, my speeches, be talkative. To my words, the key and the lock. The lock is in the mouth, and the key is in the sea. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Strong love spell

God's house. God's threshold. God's Throne. The power of love is powerful, the tear of jealousy is burning. Go, longing, to every hair, on the servant of God (name), on his crown, on his temple, on the liver and on the heart, on the blood and on the vein, on all his joints, on all his thoughts, thoughts, on his chest white, rosy cheeks, for lust and sighs. He wouldn’t fall asleep to sleep, he wouldn’t eat. Ten winds, the tenth is a whirlwind. Twist his brains so that he doesn’t eat, doesn’t sit, doesn’t lie, but rushes and runs to me from everywhere. Locks won't hold him, bolts won't stop him. Lovers-darlings will not cajole, aunts will not persuade, uncles do not have mints. He would keep me, the servant of God (name), in his head, he wouldn’t let go of my mind. Let him hear my voice everywhere, without me he does not breathe clean air. As a fish dies on a bank without water, grass dries up without mother earth, there is no sky without clouds, so may the servant of God (name) never forget me with anyone. And who will treat him will get tired from the first day. Amen.

strong love spell

They put three candles on a new white tablecloth. The spell is read three times and after each time one candle is extinguished. When all three candles are extinguished, tie them together and light them again so that nothing remains of the candles. Chad, release the smoke through the window, let them leave with a spell.

O Eternal Lord, I implore You with tenderness. Create a high wall, create a deep pit, impenetrable fence, insurmountable longing. Depth - three fathoms of earth, height - of immeasurable height, and melancholy of immeasurable depth. Lock, Lord, and block so that the servant of God (name) does not leave me, he does not find another girlfriend for himself. Lock it with a key and take it for yourself, help, Lord, God's servant (name). Until this lock is opened, until then the servant of God (name) cannot stop loving me. Key, lock, tongue. Amen.

Conspiracy words for love

They read into the open door of the stove as soon as the firewood catches fire:

Dym Dymovich, Wind Vetrovich, do not fall either on the water or on the ground. Fall on the servant of God (name), on a zealous heart. As smoke writhes in the oven, so the servant of God (name) about the servant of God (name) wind, wind. My words will be strong and sculpting. Stronger than stone, stronger than damask steel. Amen. Read three times.

For passionate love (very strong love spell)

Made with salt. They read while holding the salt in the salt shaker in their right hand. They subtract nine morning dawns in this way, while the stoves are not yet heated and no one has washed or eaten in the house. With this salt on the tenth day they salt the food of their dear.

No woman will ever be interested in your husband after this love spell. Oh my God. I'll take a deep breath, shake my wild head. Come out of the cemetery, longing, come, find, attack the servant of God (name), so that without longing for me, for his married, legal wife, do not sleep, do not get up, do not lie down, do not remember his father and mother, but me, servant of God (name), never to forget. How pain does not let you forget about yourself in the body, how you can never forget bread and salt, nine winds, and the tenth whirlwind, take away all their hot tears from all widowers and widows, from abandoned orphans and young women. Turn them into salt, twist, twist, fall on my salt in your right hand, enter the body of the servant of God (name) with food. Be there, live there. Let him be sad without me and toil. Throws at all four corners. Meet him, winds, even walking or even standing. Take the soul out of him, drink the blood out of him, push him in the back with a twist. All to me, God's servant (name), see off, drive and send: from oak tables, maple beds, from friends and girlfriends. Bread is my friend, salt is my mother. There is no one who can break my plot. And the servant of God (name) century after century, from now on and forever so that I (name) will not be forgotten. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen. Amen. Amen.

Love conspiracies and spells (a conspiracy that is valid until death)

In one day, three commemorations are served, in three churches at the same time for the repose and for the health of the one who needs to be dried. Then they go to a place where the wind blows, and there they throw the earth, brought in advance from the cemetery, from three graves of the dead, who bore the same name as the husband. They throw the earth against the wind and say:

As the dead servant of God (name) no longer wear hats, so the servant of God (name) alive without me, the servant of God (name), no longer live. As the dead servant of God (name) can no longer walk, so the servant of God (name) cannot be alive without me. Amen. Amen. Amen.

For devoted love

This conspiracy is read until dawn.

In an open field there is a willow, on that willow a bird forked a nest, dropped an egg with a chick into the sea. As this bird's heart ached about an egg, so that the servant of God (name) would have a heartache and ache for me, God's servant (name). So that they don’t eat me with food, so that they don’t drink wine, with young women so that they don’t forget, they don’t stop loving until gray old age. I would seem to him at night as the Moon, at dawn - as a morning star, when thirsty - as sweet water, when hungry - as food. My hands are wings, my eyes are arrows. A century to love, a century not to forget me, never change with anyone. I will close the keys, I will bury the locks in the sand, I will throw the keys into the hole. Whoever gets those keys, only he will become an obstacle to me in my love. Key, lock, tongue. Amen.

Love spell for twenty years

Buy two wedding candles on your Angel Day. They read a conspiracy on them, and then stand in the church at someone's wedding (be sure to take candles with you). After the wedding, the candles must burn out to the end. Keep the rest at home, in a secluded place. They read like this:

You are wedding angels, you are wedding rings, you are holy candles, golden images. As people trust you, trust you with their destinies, pray and hope, so I, God's servant (name), believe you and hope. Bless the heart of the servant of God (name) for a long love, for twenty years of life for me, God's servant (name). Just as the red Sun cannot be without rays, how hard it is for a person to live without his clear eyes, a nursing child without milk, a centenary old man without a batog, like a fish cannot be without water, a living person without food, so my husband could not be without me. , his wife, God's servant (name). How difficult it is for a person to live without sleep, just as there is no house without doors and windows, a head without a thought, so he would pull her to the altar to get married from this time, with my order. My word is strong. Key, lock, tongue. Amen.

A conspiracy for eternal love

They tear dry grass in the field, break the dry paws of the spruce (the lowest) and make a fire on the full moon on women's days (Wednesday, Friday). With your left hand, throw into the fire three freshly laid eggs from a hen that did not know a rooster. Bypassing the fire clockwise, read the spell for love.

In the name of Divine Fire! Servant of God (name), listen to me. As unborn chicks burn, so your heart will burn forever. Your soul, body, blood, you will all turn into love! So that you (name) couldn’t sleep, couldn’t stand still, neither eat without me, nor drink without me, couldn’t walk with your feet, ride on horseback, sleep with women, walk with girls, you won’t cross the bridge, you won’t swim across the river, on you won’t sit down on a chair, you won’t make a decision, you won’t raise your hands against me, you won’t say a word against me. Like the Red Sun, people joyfully meet, like children welcome their beloved mother, like they don’t live without salt, water, food, they don’t weave a cloth from the air. I am one for you, God's servant (name). The forest crowns us, the fire crowns us, the earth crowns us, God's words crown us. Hour by minute, God's century by century, and we are with you forever. Amen.

Conspiracy for love without treason

The Lord gave land, the Lord gave water. The earth gave birth to gold and silver. And just as everyone covets for gold, their hands reach out to him, so my husband (name) would have coveted me, admired, would never part with me. With lips, hands, he reached out to me, to his married wife, the servant of God (name), hugged and had mercy. As the true Christ did not change faith, so my husband, the servant of God (name), would not know anyone except me, would not cheat on me until the very grave. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

Loyalty Conspiracy

I have a seal of fidelity, no one can take this seal: neither with hands, nor with conspiracy words, nor with an evasive spell, nor with a trilingual curse, nor with a gray-haired grandfather, nor with a cunning guide, nor with a witch, nor with an evil sorceress, nor with a shaman, nor with a cunning deceit, no clear eyes, no black curls, no white breasts, no Adam's garden, no front, no back. My seal cannot be broken, the servant of God (name) cannot be lured, I cannot change him forever and ever. He will admire me for a century, how to be afraid of the fire of treason. As a child cries for his chest, a foal cries for his mother. No one will stand between us, only one thing can separate us: if one of us dies, he will take the seal with him. Angels, archangels, take the seal, carry it with me. Century after century, now and forever. Key, lock, tongue. Amen.

Very strong spell

They stand at the crossroads, look at the moon and read in full voice:

A clean field, a wide expanse, I call brothers here, 13 devils, to drink, take a walk, feast, remember the servant of God (name). Drink blood from (name), sit on a stone board, give him a heavy longing for me, God's servant (name). So that he would vehemently miss, suffer greatly, grieve with grief, sob with blood. As a sister cries for her brother at a remembrance, a grandfather yearns for her grandmother at a funeral. He doesn’t eat, doesn’t drink, doesn’t take anything into his head, no labor, no work, no joy, no care, neither in the morning nor in the afternoon, neither water nor fire. Prayer does not lime, do not sweep away with a broom the thoughts of a servant of God (name) for me, God's servant (name). I lock it, I lock it with a key. Pike in the water, trim in me. As long as I am alive, my work cannot be interrupted, in prayer it cannot be prayed for, not removed, not washed off. So be it now and forever. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

A conspiracy for eternal love without treason

There is an entrance on earth, whoever enters it will find my water. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit (bow). I will take the servant of God (name) by the right hand, bring on him eternal love and boredom for me. Do not wash it off, do not dissuade, do not stop loving me, do not forget (bow). He would eat and not seize, he would drink and not drink, be bored in separation, suffer, not know peace and rest. May I be to him like bread, like water, like a clear sky and earth, dearer than freedom, kinder to blood. (Name), give your heart, and take my heart. Close, mother earth, help, sister water (bow). Go, (name), for me, for God's servant (name). Four stars above (bow), water power below (bow). In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

Conspiracy words for men to approach a girl

Before you go where the girl you are shy is, read the conspiracy to approach the girl. See, everything will work out for you.

My land, mother, the sun is red, matchmaker, take and help, set up and strengthen my business. The earth sprinkles with sand, the sun lights up red, the Lord blesses us with the servant of God (name). I’ll come up like a snake, lie down in soft moss, go into the house as an unexpected guest, and go out as a welcome groom. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

How to dry a young man

I will get up, blessed, go out, crossing myself, from door to door, from gate to gate to the blue sea. There are 12 brothers, I will go closer to them, I will bow lower. 12 brothers, go to the blue sea, there is an island on the blue sea, there is an oak tree on the island, under this oak tree lies a slab, longing for melancholy, dryness. Raise this slab, take away this melancholy, bring it, lay it on the zealous heart of the servant of God (name). Give him sadness-sadness, so that he yearns, mourns, shouts in a bad voice for me, the servant of God (name). So that he could neither live, nor be, nor day to day, nor hour to hour, not a minute to pass. With you, the Sun is red, with mother, the dawn of morning Mary, evening Marimyan, midnight Ulyana, with you, the bright Moon. I wouldn’t walk, I wouldn’t sit, I wouldn’t think, I wouldn’t smoke, I wouldn’t smoke, I wouldn’t walk, I wouldn’t eat, I wouldn’t drink, I wouldn’t fall asleep, I would get up in the morning, take me to mind-mind, servant of God (name). Lighter than the noonday wind, faster than fire lightning, let another girl seem terrible to him, like a lioness, like fiery parts, like scary seas, like a striped owl, like a shaggy witch. And for him, the servant of God (name), I am a firebird. Amen.

Dry for love

Damn Satan, there are horns on your head, get out of hell, help me, servant of God (name) turn to me. With the wind I send dryness, waving, love and longing. You go to him, evil, from the violent wind in the face. To take his love-longing, beat, break, did not let me sleep at night, sent me to the porch. Evil evil, grief gnawing, heart sucking, do not give, love, the servant of God (name), neither eat nor sleep, nor be with others; resist him, my dear, all people and non-humans, uncles, sons-in-law, mother and father and friends, all young women, like a gelding of a mare, so that they know me alone, miss me alone, mourn, yearn for, would not feast with anyone, bread I didn’t eat, I didn’t drink water, I wouldn’t sit down at the oak table without me, I didn’t go to bed at midnight, take it away, longing, love, and don’t let go at any minute, at any hour. The words of the master are strong, molding, stronger than stone, sharper than damask steel, faster than fiery lightning. Amen.

severe dryness

To slander on drinking, on food, so that the well done fell in love:

Ancient Beelzebub, give me the ring-key to open the door where the terrible beast lies. Call him longing. I will let him go and send him to the servant of God (name). Let him follow on his heels, torment him with heavy longing. Horned Beelzebub, you are the main Satan, you have been given the power to do evil, I will bow my relics to you, I will ask you for help, give me the heart of a servant of God (name). Amen.

Love spell on the ring

In Pokrov, they put the husband's wedding ring in a glass of holy water and put this glass under the bed. At night, when you have mercy, think to yourself and say: The ring has no end, my husband has no other crown forever and ever. I am his first, I am his last. Amen. In the morning, give the ring to your husband.

Love spell on straw from seven yards

They collect straw from seven yards, put it in a pile, and then the woman must roll on the ground around this pile. The straw is set on fire and read into the smoke:

As straw is given to the power of this fire, so, my dear husband (name), give me your peace. As smoke submits to fire, rises up, so you, the servant of God (name), submit to me forever and ever, never part with me. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Now and forever and forever and ever. Amen.

Love spell on a leash

So that the husband does not dangle around friends and girlfriends, take a dog leash, step over it back and forth, and then, tapping the leash on the threshold, say

How they taught a dog to this leash, tamed it to the owner, so that my husband (name) would be nailed to my doorstep, he would not stray from his house forever and ever. On Monday to hug, on Tuesday pardon, on Wednesday kissed hotly, on Thursday did not lag behind the hem, on Friday to court, on Saturday he would court more strongly, on Sunday he died of love for me, wept and suffered, white light without me, God slaves, did not see. Key, lock, tongue. Amen. Amen. Amen.

Conspiracy words for a fishing net

With this strong conspiracy, the guys were caught as grooms even for the ugliest girl. And how they then lived well and well, that everyone only envied them. They did it this way: early, at the first sign of dawn, they went to the river, found the nets set by the fishermen. Holding on to the net with the right hand, they read the love words three times:

God help me. God bless. And you, net, fish for the fisherman uncle, and for me, the servants of God (name), the groom. Arise, my bridegroom, from summer and from winter, from autumn and from spring, from north and from south. I speak to this network of my dear friend. As fish fall into the net, how they no longer get out of it, fall asleep in it without water, do not wake up, so my fiancé (name) would come into my house himself and never leave me anywhere else. I close all the paths for you (name), I close the return thresholds for you. Until the network unties itself to all nodes, until then my fiancé (name) will not refuse me. Be you, my words, molding and strong. Amenem I'm closing. Amenem I hide. Key, lock, tongue. Amen. Amen. Amen.

To the morning dew

Stand with bare feet on the morning dewy grass and read the call-slander:

Dew to dew, tear to tear, dawn to dawn. You are Zoryushka-Dawn, where do you go, whom you do not please. Rejoice my heart. Bring a haze-smoke on the soul of the Christian servant of God (name). Fall like a dew, a salty tear on his zealous heart. As the Mother of the Most Holy Theotokos grieves, grieves for her Son, so the servant of God (name) would grieve and miss me, the servant of God (name). Dawn to dawn, tear to tear, servant of God (name) to me. Amen.

On the first snow (dry on a woman)

As the Christian people are happy with the Protection of the Father, the white snow, the first snow, so the servant of God (name) would rejoice at me always and everywhere, the servant of God (name). Without me, she would have abandoned all her worries, all mothers and aunts, grandfathers and grandmothers, girlfriends and friends, and everything would have been looking for me in the wide world, everyone would have been happy to meet me, how small children are glad for the first snowball. And as the snow melts in a hot hand, so let it melt without me and toil forever and ever. My word is strong and stucco. As snow sticks behind your feet, so stick, cling to me, servant of God (name). Amen.

They read while looking at the first snow.

Unfortunately, no couple is immune from the fact that their marriage will ever crack. And the reason for this will be adultery. After the happy period of courtship is over, young people have to make efforts to make their family strong and harmonious. And in some situations, under the influence of various reasons, men or women begin to seek happiness on the side. A fidelity conspiracy, which is carried out by the wife at a certain time and using certain attributes, is capable of helping to save the family. Before you read a conspiracy on your husband's fidelity, you should remember that this is not the only method and you should not sit back and work hard in order to maintain a strong family and harmonious relationships.

The time for performing the rituals and which moon to read the conspiracy for fidelity is important. It is recommended to perform a magical effect during the period of the full or waning moon, unless otherwise indicated in the instructions for the ritual. If you are not sure that the faithful is having fun with another woman, it is better to abandon such an undertaking, first find out whether there really was a fact of betrayal.

A conspiracy of loyalty must be carried out strictly according to the instructions, do not confuse words, do not add or change anything on your own. All manipulations must be carried out in private, so that no one else interferes and does not see. Also, no one should ever be told that they turned to magic for help.

When magic is needed

Psychologists say that after the first three years of married life, the couple is experiencing one of the crises. Experts in the field of esotericism believe that it is at this time that interest in the wife fades away and a man can be drawn to exploits on the side. There are several reasons for male infidelity:

1. Boredom, the desire to change the situation.
2. Dissatisfaction with the spouse in various areas.
3. Proof to himself that he is still young and attractive to the opposite sex.
4. Boasting in front of friends.

Another reason for betrayal can be a love spell. It is used by an outside woman in order to take her husband away from the family. With the help of love magic, a strong influence can be exerted on a person. Therefore, it is very important to use this method only if nothing else helps. Magic will help not only to return the spouse to the family. The effectiveness of conspiracies is also noted in cases where:

• too frank views, flirting with other women;
• treason;
• if the partner has cooled off sexually;
• if he stopped paying attention to appearance, does not give compliments, is not interested
• life;
• too frequent quarrels and conflicts;
• frequent entertainment apart.

It is also important to remember that in no case should rituals be performed just for the sake of curiosity. Only if a person really needs help, higher powers will be favorable to him.

Effective rituals for fidelity of a husband

There are a large number of magical actions for the devotion and fidelity of a spouse or boyfriend. There is one very strong fidelity conspiracy, which has a prolonged effect. But there is one nuance here - the illegal wife does not have the right to conduct it, otherwise there is a danger of bringing trouble on herself and her man. After such a ceremony, the husband will not have sexual desire for other women. To conduct the ritual, you will need wax, it can be melted from church candles.

It is necessary to wait until the sun hides behind the horizon. After that, mold a semblance of a male genital organ from wax, whisper the words of a spell on it:

“From now on, you are called to be a member of my husband, a servant of God (husband’s name). Amen".

Hide the figurine under your bed, at night there must be closeness between you. In the morning after waking up, secretly get the wax penis, go to a deserted place and bury it in a hole, while reading the words:

“I dug a hole so that my husband, the servant of God (husband’s name), would not stand on others. As I fill the hole with earth, so my husband will only get up on me, the servant of God (her name). And so be it, from now on and as long as we live with him. Amen".

Repeat the spell three times, then fill the wax figurine with earth. After such a ritual, the spouse will be able to have sexual intercourse only with the one who read the spell.

There is another effective conspiracy for fidelity, which is carried out with the help of an icon. But such a conspiracy of fidelity can only be used if the couple is married in a church. It is believed that the power of the wedding is very strong and the souls of the married couple are bonded forever in heaven, so it is much easier to return to such a union the former relationship, tenderness, fidelity, love and romance. To conduct this ceremony, you will need the Icon of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Best of all, if it is old, before this they usually prayed a lot, so it is charged with strong energy.

With this icon, you must go to church seven times and pray. Further, while the husband is sleeping, a conspiracy is read on the burden of fidelity and devotion:

“Once upon a time, I, God’s servant (name), was baptized in the church, they put a cross around my neck, my dear mother stood nearby, my godmother held me. Holy Mother of God. how holy was baptism, so grant me your forgiveness and grant your help. Let my husband, with whom she is married, return to the family, only warm my bed, taste only my dishes, only raise his eyes to me. There will be no strange women in our life, let the homeless women not get into the habit of us. And if they cannot cope with their desire, let them receive their punishment according to their merits. My beloved husband will always be by my side.

Repeat the petition to the higher powers three times, it is best to carry out such manipulations after midnight. Cross the spouse three times with the icon spoken before going to bed. The icon must be placed in the matrimonial bedroom. Such a rite of fidelity is very strong, it helps to get rid of the homeowner, return the lost husband to the family, and strengthen relationships.

So that a guy or husband does not go to the left, white magic offers to perform the following ceremony for the fidelity of a man. To carry out a magical ritual, you will need an empty egg, three hairs from the spouse's head. In a fresh egg, you need to carefully make a hole and release the contents at the crossroads. Then put the husband's hairs in an empty shell, read these words:

“The Lord Almighty gave us the salt of the earth. I will slander fidelity with the help of white witchcraft to my spouse, so that he is not unfaithful, so that there will never be betrayals on his part. May I not face betrayal. May he love me, want me, live by me, does not leave me a single step. Can't sleep in someone else's bed. I'll lock the lock with the key and throw the key away. I'll sprinkle salt, I'll pour it on the threshold. May it be so".

After reading the spell, you will need to drip a little wax from a church candle to seal the hole. Wrap the testicle in a red cloth, pour a handful of salt into it. Tie up. Keep this bundle at home, in a secret place, but always so that the husband does not find it.

Very effective is the conspiracy on wedding rings. Tie both rings with a red woolen thread, lower them into a glass with a saint. For three days, read the words:

“Wedding rings joined together. So let the servants of God (your names and your spouse) be inseparable. There will be no quarrels between us, no insults, no partings, no crooked words, no diseases, no evil people, no false friends, no damned demons, no sworn enemies. May it be so forever. Amen".

Three days later, take out the rings, put them on a thick church candle, set fire to it. The candle must burn out. At this time, pray to higher powers for help and protection.

Consequences of conspiracies

It is important to remember that any magical effect can affect a person's health and his mental state. Therefore, before turning to witchcraft for help, you need to carefully weigh the pros and cons. If you forcibly deprive a person of the opportunity to gain freedom of action, this is subsequently fraught with various diseases for him, including mental ones. Therefore, you need to be very careful in choosing a ritual, conduct it strictly in accordance with the rules, go to church, pray, ask higher powers for help and never turn to black magic. You can use rites of allegiance no more than two times during the year. You can not take revenge with the help of magic and force yourself to love.

Use white magic only with good intentions, only to save your union and prevent marriage from outside influence.

A kind of love spell that will make the soulmate faithful and devoted in a love relationship is a rite of allegiance. The strongest conspiracy is carried out only when a person is sure that he is ready to connect his life with this person, or if he suspects a partner of treason, and does not want to ruin his family because of this.

Preparing for the ritual of fidelity

For the rite to be effective and magical strong texts, you need to read clearly, have a set of items for the rite. The strength of the read conspiracy is affected by:

• the time of the ceremony;
• the accuracy of the actions of the conspirator;
• the power of a deity;
• faith in a good result.

Men are more likely to turn to magicians, and girls conduct rituals on their own. A conspiracy to be faithful to a guy or girl is not complicated, but it is important to follow the recommendations.

Conspiracy on a spoon

If you suspect your partner of cheating, you can heat a metal spoon that he will use while eating. After cooling it with water, say:

“This spoon is meant to lie in my house. You (the name of the spouse) are destined to be with your husband, not to go anywhere. Do not look at other people's fellows, look at your betrothed. Amen".

horse hair conspiracy

“Just as a gelding of a gelding does not have the strength to stand over a black, red or white stallion, so the servant of God (name) does not have the strength to look at any woman except his wife, the servant of God (name).”

In a conspiracy for the fidelity of a husband, it is important to mention your name, otherwise you can make an impotent man from your beloved. The rite is most effective if it is performed on the growing moon.

Holy water conspiracy

A rite for holy water is performed. It cannot be performed. In the church they take holy water, at home they pour it in a saucer. Place it so that the moon is reflected in the container. Then they say:

“The moon is full and clear and my thoughts are clear and full of love. Give, mother moon, holy water the strength to instill it in the servant of God (name), and he knew that the servant of God is better, his wife (name) is not in the world. I wouldn’t wash my face without her, wouldn’t fall asleep, shifted from side to side and wouldn’t eat at someone else’s table with charms.

A conspiracy of fidelity is carried out in complete solitude and so that no one hears the words of the ritual, and no one sees the plate. Before going to bed, they dip their fingers in the charmed water and baptize the husband’s pillow and say:

“You won’t fall asleep without me, you won’t calm down without me. You will rush about and rush home.

The husband's fidelity conspiracy is valid for a month, then it is recommended to repeat it.

conspiracy for food

All food rituals are dangerous and powerful. The wrong step can bring misfortune and illness to the house, so you should follow all the rules for the ceremony:

• For the ritual, it is better to prepare the broth.
• During the conspiracy, you need to be calm and confident.
• Pronounce words clearly and without errors. Recommend to learn them.
• While reading, hold the right hand over the dish with the palm down.

You can only speak for food once a year. It is impossible to use charmed food in other rituals. Otherwise, fate will be confused and negative will come to the house. The rite is used to preserve the love of a young man or husband. It is important to use only homemade food. Ritual text:

“Let the servant of God (name), except for the food that his wife gives him, the servant of God (name), do not eat or drink anything, do not close his eyes in a strange house. All his thoughts will be noble about the family and about the wife, so that away from sin, and closer to the family hearth.

Rite for food against other conspiracies

Most of the rites of fidelity are white magic, so other women can also bewitch someone else's husband. To secure or remove the conspiracy, a special magical ritual is performed.

The impact of conspiracies on health

All magical conspiracies affect health and the psyche if they are carried out with malicious intent and incorrectly. In order not to harm a person, the purpose of the ceremony should be bright. It is carried out to save love, smooth out the conflict, and calm the unpleasant thoughts of a husband or wife.

A conspiracy of allegiance is allowed to be carried out 2 times a year. If you use it more often, the body of the charmed will begin to resist, diseases, skin irritations, and suicidal tendencies will appear. Therefore, you need to speak to your loved one only if necessary.

Conclusion

In white magic, it is recommended to use conspiracies for the fidelity of a guy for preventive purposes, and not after treason. Strong rituals are performed only with good intentions. There is a fine line between conspiracy and love spell. Therefore, you must follow all the rules and recommendations of the ceremony, so as not to bring trouble.

Family happiness usually begins with beautiful courtship, a happy period, when lovers do not need anything or anyone but each other, and it seems that boundless happiness and a sea of ​​​​love await them ahead. But, no matter how sad, even the ocean has a coast and rocky shores on which boats crash. Women experience family life much easier than freedom-loving men. They do not come up with the concept of time as an impermanent change. When they feel good and comfortable, they do not think at all, and when they become a little uncomfortable, pictures of sheer misfortune appear in their heads with a period of eternity.
And it’s very sad when such a “demon” instills in your beloved husband at the moments when you need him as support, as a friend and husband. Toxicosis during pregnancy, troubles at work, untimely loss of a beloved pet. All this is not always clear to husbands. Instead of support, we hear reproaches and doubts that the marriage took place for many years. Quarrels, disagreements, scandals begin, and now, literally on nothing, the family breaks up. If you turn to higher powers in time, read out a conspiracy for the fidelity of your husband and peace in the family, then you can not only avoid a quarrel, but also save your family.

When is it better to use a conspiracy of loyalty

Of course, you should not read the plot whenever you want or for the sake of interest. Nevertheless, any intervention of the forces of the Universe, even with good intentions, can turn into a sad lesson for you personally and your curious friends. By the way, there is a fine line between a conspiracy and a love spell. Although the difference in these rites is great, one wrong word or poor preparation and your desires can turn into bad intentions to break the will of another person, instead of calming his temporary thoughts that frighten him.

Therefore, when reading the plot, be especially careful and do not be angry with anyone.

Conspiracies for the fidelity of a husband and a loved one on horsehair

Find a gelding and take a good long hair from his mane. Insert it into the elastic band of your husband's underwear, saying:

“Just as a gelding of a gelding does not have the strength to stand over a black, red or white stallion, so the servant of God (name) does not have the strength to look at any woman except his wife, the servant of God (name).”

Do not forget to mention yourself when slandering, otherwise you risk making an irritated impotent out of your husband.

A conspiracy to love and not change - a rite of dog fidelity

Conspiracies from betrayal to the fidelity of a beloved husband or man can be divided into those that are aimed at the relationship between you, and those that affect the relationship of your beloved with a rival. Magic contains many ways to bind a beloved man to himself by saying a conspiracy of fidelity and performing a simple rite of "the burden of eternal fidelity." Now the girls massively want to conduct a folk love spell on their own at home and instantly tying a loved one to themselves to make him a faithful and devoted family man. Someone goes the simpler way and, turning to the magicians, receives a high-quality magical ritual for fidelity and love, and your beloved man will very quickly return to you and will never be able to change again. If there is no opportunity to go to the magicians, and the question: how to return a loved one in a very easy way, torments you, you can first make a simple conspiracy for true love.

A conspiracy of fidelity can be read on your own if you suspect a loved one of treason. The rite of dog fidelity is perfect for reading on a husband or beloved man - the groom. This is a kind of love spell, from treason, which will make a person faithful and devoted only to you. Previously, this strongest conspiracy of fidelity was read only in those cases when a loved one “indulged in all serious things” and in order to avoid shame and not destroy the family, a magical rite of dog fidelity was performed. You need to read the conspiracy of fidelity before going to bed 7 evenings without a break, 1 time:

"On the sea on the okiya, on the island on Buyan lies a white-flammable stone,
White, like the breast of a wife, the name of the stone is Alatyr, Alatyr, unknown to anyone.
I will rise, the servant of God (my name), I will bless the cross,
I wash myself with spring water from variegated leaves,
From trading guests, from priests, from clerks, from young men,
From red girls, young women, from white breasts.
From under that stone of Alatyr I will release the power for a love spell
And I will send that mighty power to my dear, servant of God (name of the beloved),
In all joints and half-joints, in all bones and half-bones,
In all veins and half-veins, in clear eyes,
rosy cheeks, in his chest,
Zealous heart, into the womb, into the black liver, into the exuberant head,
Strong arms, frisky legs, hot blood.
To make his blood boil and hiss,
My heart jumped at the thought of me,
I would cover my eyes with a white light.

I grieved, I did not see peace in the night,
During the day he searched among people, could he live, be,
Hours to watch, minutes to pass without me, servants of God (your name).
Anguish would rise from the depths of the sea,
From sea grass-ant,
Sorrow would rise because of the blue mountains,
From dark forests, frequent branches,
Rise, rise, sadness-dryness,
Unquenchable passion, unquenchable love, throw yourself on
Pounce on the servant of God (the name of the beloved),
Hit him, like a robber victim, with a sharp knife,
So that neither a doctor, nor a sorcerer, nor a black sorcerer
They did not raise him from this disease,
They didn't take him from my chest,
So that the servant of God (the name of the beloved) yearns,
He grieved for me, God's servant (his name),
Like a mother to a child, a sheep to a lamb, a mare to a foal.
I lock the love spell with three locks,
Three nine keys.
My word is strong and sculpted,
Like a combustible stone Alatyr.

A conspiracy so that the husband loves and does not cheat

The plot on the fidelity of the husband, which will be discussed, has a very great love spell, so you can only read it if you are already married to your loved one and want to be with him for the rest of your life. A love spell on the fidelity of a husband with a conspiracy against betrayal can also be read if the beloved husband walks to the side. The rite will help to return the husband from his mistress and will discourage him even from the desire to look “to the left”. The rite of fidelity to the husband came to us from the Old Believers and its implementation will not require much effort from you and long preparations for the magical rite of fidelity. Lay a red silk ribbon across your marital bed under the sheet. In the morning, take a ribbon and comb your hair in front of a mirror, braid your hair into a braid, weaving this ribbon into them, reading a conspiracy to love a husband who protects him from betrayal:

"I will go out, the red maiden servant of God (her name),
In the morning in an open field and I will go to look for my beloved.
I'll look to the left - there is no my beloved,
to the right I will look there is no my favorite.
I'll look back - there is no one and there is only one field ahead.
I will grieve, the red maiden is the servant of God (her name),
Where can I look for a good fellow servant of God (husband's name)?
And the wind will tell me:
Come back home, the red maiden is the servant of God (her name),
Your dear servant of God is waiting for you (husband's name),
Sitting and yearning for you all alone.
You gently kiss him, hug him tightly,
And he will not look to the side and he will not say across the word.
I am in the canopy, and my dear is in the canopy:
Waiting, waiting, not eating, not sleeping, not drinking,
He looks at the road, who is walking along the road, who will now enter the canopy.
I'll come home. Where is my dear. My words are strong and sculpting."

Find a case for the husband to touch the braid with a ribbon that was conspired for loyalty (you can sit on his knees and put the braid on his neck, etc.), after this conspiracy, the husband will be faithful to you like a “dog”. Conspiracies for the fidelity of a loved one should also be used to prevent adultery in advance as a preventive measure before separation.

Against other conspiracies

All women are a bit of a witch, so do not be surprised if a man went "to the left" against his will. A lapel from impudent girls can be made for food at home.

Prepare the meat broth, when the foam goes, do not throw it away, but put it in a cup. After the plot, give it to the dogs.

“Just as my food boils and she will never live, so my husband, the servant of God (name), cannot be fed or dried to anyone, neither for raw, nor for salty, nor for sweet, nor for boiled, nor for baked, nor for liquid - no other. Boil the evil out of the flesh, and the dog devour it to health. And then my word will interrupt when the dog sings like a nightingale.

After a hearty lunch or dinner, do not quarrel with your husband, avoid quarrels. Be an affectionate wife.

For your food from treason

The meat broth described above cannot be spoken several times and different conspiracies cannot be read over it, otherwise fate will be confused and misfortunes and illnesses will come to the house. Soup for protection is intended exclusively for one time and is valid for a long time. But this conspiracy removes any love spell and protects the man even from your conspiracies to exclude treason. If you decide that you should not be afraid of a verdict from outside, but it makes sense to “slow down” your husband in interest in new employees at work or cool interest in young ladies, then you can read such a conspiracy for your own preparation.

“Let the servant of God (name) besides the food that his wife gives him, the servant of God (name) does not eat or drink anything, he will not close his eyes in a strange house. All his thoughts will be noble about the family and about the wife, so that away from sin, and closer to the family hearth.

Holy water on a full moon

Get holy water from the church. On a full moon, put water in a saucer so that the full moon is reflected in the cup. Speak these words:

“The moon is full and clear and my thoughts are clear and full of love. Give, mother - the moon, holy water the strength to instill it in the servant of God (name) and he knew that the servants of God are better, his wife (name) is not in the world. I wouldn’t wash my face without her, I wouldn’t fall asleep - I shifted from side to side and didn’t eat at someone else’s table with charms.

It is necessary to make sure that no one sees your water, and no one hears slander. Before going to bed, while your husband is away, dip your fingers in water and baptize his pillow.

“You won’t fall asleep without me, you won’t calm down without me. You will rush about and rush home.

Thus, for the next month you will save your family from treason.

Does conspiracy affect health?

Yes, a conspiracy affects health and the psyche if it is cooked incorrectly and with malicious intent. You must know exactly the goal: to save, smooth out the conflict, calm the unpleasant thoughts of your husband. And not to take revenge, cripple, take away and hide from everyone. Remember that love is freedom, not a web in which a person begins to suffocate. To prevent discord or to draw crazy power from a source of magic is your business, but the outcome has long been clear: either you are Vasilisa the Wise or Kikimora swamp, alone, angry and lonely.
You can speak to a person no more than 2 times a year, in subsequent situations, his body will resist an unnatural state, irritation, suspicion will appear, and true love will pass against the background of unnatural affection.

Therefore, speak to your loved one only when necessary.

Remember, the Universe always gives strength if you ask well, but you yourself will have to pay for your thoughts and deeds.

Signs of a “true” feeling When two people truly love each other, they will overcome all obstacles and difficulties just to be together. Their relationship is accompanied by a constant struggle for their feelings, despite gossip or other people's speculation. Love settles where understanding and mutual support reign. The real feeling cannot but be mutual. Such sensations as lust, sexual attraction, passion are just a desire to completely possess someone, dictated by one's own egoism. In any circumstances, a really close person will always be there to support and say comforting words. He will cover his back in the most difficult moments in life. No matter how difficult and hard it is, you can always find spiritual strength to help the person you love. A woman who is in search of true love will never exchange for a "one-day" relationship with a person she is not sure about. She does not need to prove anything with her relationship to relatives, acquaintances, or anyone else. We become better, prettier and more attractive next to our beloved. But you cannot sacrifice something or do anything that is at odds with personal interests. Of course, no one will argue that building a family is hard work, but it should not become a burden.