Past life relationships: what is a karmic marriage and what kind of ending can it lead to? Is it a man by fate? How to understand that marriage is karmic

Every person wants to be happy. For many, happiness is expressed in Love, in a warm and harmonious relationship with their beloved.

But often in our life there are meetings when two people unite together, in marriage, the relationship between whom can hardly be called happy and harmonious. As a rule, people live together, completely dissimilar and not suitable for each other.

Often in such a relationship there is discontent, claims, dissatisfaction, and sometimes latent or explicit, poorly restrained, hatred for each other. And despite all sorts of admonitions of parents, girlfriends, acquaintances, some unknown force keeps them together and does not allow them to be separated.

From the point of view of esotericism, these people must go through the time allotted to them in pairs. This is their Karma, and the Higher Forces united them on Earth.

What does karmic marriage mean?

There is an old Indian teaching, according to which two laws work in the life of every person - Karma and Drachma.

Drachma is what a person must fulfill in front of the Universe, for what purposes he was originally created, this is the Purpose of a person, this is all of his Potential, which must be revealed in a series of incarnations on Earth.

This is a kind of program, following which a person acquires Happiness and Harmony. This is the Way! And everyone has his own. The main thing is to find him.

If a person does not go his own way, deviates from the course determined by the Higher Forces, suffering and all kinds of obstacles come into his life - this is Karma.

Karma is a kind of working off of all those programs of a person that have led to a deviation from their true path.

Karma passes from incarnation to incarnation and continues until all debts are distributed, and the person does not reveal all the potential inherent in him initially - his Purpose. And often, working out all karmic lessons is not limited to one earthly life.

“You and only you are responsible for your actions. And you won't be able to shift the responsibility onto someone else. You have to pay for everything. Debts must be repaid ”- says the law of Karma.

Indians are deeply convinced that there are people in their current incarnation who have wrongly built relationships in previous lives. Therefore they are doomed to a so-called karmic marriage.

All people are present in our life for a reason. There are no accidents. Children, friends, beloved, parents come into our life with a specific task - to help correctly, according to cosmic laws, resolve this or that situation from past incarnations.

Some esotericists believe that people in their present incarnation change their roles in relation to previous lives: tyrants become victims, and victims, on the contrary, become tyrants, etc.

In marriage, a man and a woman also change places, which allows you to fully feel and experience the emotions of a partner, realize mistakes and make the right choice. Therefore, all earthly human life, more precisely, life, is a large-scale theater, where everyone, playing his own role assigned to him, living his experience, finally chooses his own path, returns the debts of the Universe and reveals his initially inherent potential.

Everyone is responsible only for their own actions, words, thoughts, actions and is responsible for them himself. This is how justice is restored.

Karmic marriage: signs

One of the most common signs is a quick transition from the stage of acquaintance to marriage, as a rule, from a few days to a month. Often, the so-called "Love at first sight", when a person seems familiar to you, as if you have known him for a very long time, you guess all his movements-gestures - from the category of karmic meetings.

Almost 100% of the karmic connection is evidenced by the fact that there are people from different cities, countries, different nationalities, different social status, who, after a short acquaintance, radically change their lifestyle and place of residence. This suggests that the Higher Forces have declared that it is time to be responsible for their actions, the karmic scenario has intensified. The performance began in the grand theater of earthly life. Or continued, who knows ...

How to find out a karmic marriage or not

Karmic marriages include esotericists marriages where one of the partners is in a state of alcohol or drug addiction. One - abuses, tempted by desire, is in the devil's bonds, and the second - is doomed to endure, suffer.

Psychologists consider this state to be codependency in the position of Tyrant (dependent) - Victim (codependent). Often, the “current” addict and the suffering person played opposite roles in a past life. The present incarnation is just a working off of karma, when the time has come to pay off debts, pay the bills and feel all the difficulties of living with a sick addicted person.

Marriages in which there is an aspect of a serious chronic illness that requires one of the partners to constantly care for the other is also often karmic. For example, if a husband (or wife) suffers from a mental illness, has lost the ability to take care of himself on his own, the second partner feels all the difficulties of living together and is forced to care for him for a long time. Otherwise, in the next life, there is a high probability that he will find himself in a similar situation.

Marriages in which the procreation is "closed" are the so-called infertile couples. Higher powers unite together those people who, from incarnation to incarnation, could not correctly solve their problems, could not realize their mistakes and take the true path. In this case, the Universe "closes" the procreation, completes the history of the pair.

The only way to make lovers "think" - to end the existence of the genus - comes into force when for a long time (usually several incarnations) both partners do not solve their joint karmic tasks.

A big difference in the age of the spouses can also speak of a karmic relationship: as a rule, 5, 10 and 15. From the point of view of karma - fatal! difference. She says that the meeting of two people is not accidental and is predetermined from above, since it is necessary to be responsible for the actions committed earlier in past incarnations.

The difference in 5 and 10 years suggests that the couple needs joint spiritual growth and development with mutual working off of debts to each other. After that, either a calm, peaceful parting without scandals is possible, or the marriage can reach a higher level.

The difference of 15 years is interpreted by esotericists as the strongest karmic dependence of partners on each other - a fatal karmic passion. Often, a great many unsolved problems in past lives have accumulated, and no divorce, parting does not lead to separation of spouses. There is only one "way out" - to become a widower (widow). But it is possible to solve unsolved problems by overcoming a very strong dependence on each other.

One of the classic examples of a karmic connection is a relationship in which one or both spouses are dissatisfied, suffer, toil, then diverge, until they converge again. Higher powers unite such people to realize and analyze their true Purpose, to reveal their own potential for each of the partners.

The karmic nature of the relationship is also evidenced by such a development of the situation when the groom goes to the bride's sister right before the wedding, or the widow marries the brother of the deceased husband.

The fact that classmates (classmates), who have not seen each other for many years and having met at the Anniversary of meetings, can no longer part, can also speak of the predetermination of the union. They are not confused by the opinions of friends, acquaintances, their families, children.

Most likely, this is also a karmic marriage and the fact that they studied in the same class is not an accident. First, they went through life separately, each solving their own individual problems, living their own experience, then came the turn of their joint performance in the earthly theater of life!

Edited by Marina Belaya.

Many people ask themselves the question: what is "karma"? I understand this word in the context of wise Russian folk proverbs that are taken from life: "As it comes around, so it will respond", "What you sow, so you reap."

And these proverbs can also be perfectly applied to marriages called karmic ones.

And to put it quite simply, many of our meetings in everyday life are not at all accidental, but caused by some actions in our past incarnations.

Of course, skeptics can argue, what kind of incarnation, there is none of this, and in general all this is nonsense. But I do not agree with this at all and will try to prove that such connections, such relationships are not someone's sick fantasy, not me - such connections really exist. Moreover, I am convinced that 90% of all marriages are karmic.

As my experience of working with people shows, one person can have a lot of karmic meetings.

Coming to this world, we find ourselves in a certain environment of people who help us to realize our karmic tasks (one must be an engineer, doctor, teacher, or policeman - and this is his karmic task, another - a beggar begging for alms, the third - a rich oligarch, and this will also be due to his personal karma).

Usually, our parents, marriage partners, children, friends, relatives, bosses, work colleagues, and even bystanders become people from past lives.

But it is the karmic ties between a man and a woman that arouse the greatest interest. Probably, having solved this puzzle, everything else will be much easier to understand. By the relationship between a man and a woman, we mean the connection between partners who knew each other in past incarnations. They felt something for each other, experienced emotions, made contact. But between them there was an understatement, debts: emotional, intellectual, spiritual or material. Meeting, such people often understand each other perfectly.

It happens that people pull a "tail" from past lives, for example, jealousy, aggression, fear, addiction. This suggests that once these two could not find the right way out of any situation, and now they are attracted to each other. The purpose of their meeting now is to complete the work begun, resolve a long-standing issue, and implement their plans. Such a couple is sent by fate (or karma) a certain situation for a certain period of time.

When karmic partners meet, they feel a rather strong need for each other. Time passes, and they begin to reproduce the old scenario of their relationship, thereby going through and experiencing the same emotions that once did not find a way out.

Thus, both get a real chance and opportunity to cope with that difficult situation, but now it is wiser and more correct, i.e. this is a kind of lesson, like in school - learned twice two - let's go further, don't learn - sit down and teach until you remember.

The spiritual goal of this meeting is for the couple to make a different choice and show higher qualities - humility, acceptance, compassion, etc. In order to understand these lessons, you need to determine what type of karmic connections your situation belongs to.

Love will come unwittingly when you don't expect it at all ...

If a love relationship (love at first sight is a typical sign of a karmic connection!), Marriage happened completely unexpectedly, both for the partners themselves and for others, for example, partners are completely different or from different social strata, then the lesson is to accept the situation and the person as is. Don't try to change him or her.

Marry - do not attack, as if marriage does not disappear ...

Marriage after a week of acquaintance - here the situation is probably the most confusing, usually partners find themselves in it like in a dream. And at the end of their dreams, their eyes begin to open wide to the world. Very often, such marriages break up after a year, maximum two. But the relationship can be saved, only the partners will have to work very hard.

In such situations, spouses must constantly move to a new level of relationships, which means that they need to devote a lot of time to the psychological side of the issue, control their reactions and deeply reflect on their actions. Such a karmic connection is healing. In this situation, in order to change his karma, a person must understand in advance what such actions lead or can lead to. Partners must develop their relationships and comprehend actions, then such a karmic situation will have a cleansing effect.

Karmic marriage - a relationship from the past

Unfavorable partner.

A situation in which one of the marriage partners is in long-term alcohol or drug addiction. Such a marriage is clearly a "punishment". One partner unconsciously chooses the other, this happens due to a hidden feeling of guilt, i.e. in a past life, the "positive" partner was in the role of a "bad person", in fact, everything happened the other way around. Having met in this life, people simply restore justice. When justice is restored, and you have “worked out” the karmic lesson, you can leave if you wish.

And together - unbearable, and apart - also in any way.

Is the relationship or marriage clearly marked with some fatality and predestination? If there is a constant struggle, it seems that people are deliberately torturing each other brutally. In such a situation, fate simply constantly brings such people together so that they learn to accept each other for who they are.

And not try to fight with yourself, because, as we know, "our partner is our own mirror." And everything that we don't like about him is sure to be in ourselves. The karmic lesson is to understand: it is not necessary to change the partner, but the attitude towards him and towards himself.

We dream of a child, but it still doesn't work out ...

Childless families. Of course, now they will talk to me about the infertility of men and women. That it is now a disease of modern people.

But now we are not talking about medical indicators (although this aspect also lends itself to deciphering from the point of view of karma) - if such problems occur, then this suggests that the future is closed for this kind.

Such relationships are closed on partners and serve to comprehend their own character traits and qualities that they should not pass on to the next generation. As a rule, such marriages break up, and the future of this karmic connection depends on how much each of the partners “corrected”.

If we are talking about a case of a breakdown in a relationship, then it is important how the spouses behave. If, for example, there is no clarification of the relationship, who is right and who is wrong, then the partners will be given children.

It is possible that if, after all, the relationship was maintained, and the couple decided to adopt a child, then over time they may be given their own child.

Since the adoption of children in the Higher Laws is considered so correct that it removes many karmic programs, but only if people do it with pure intention and a really strong desire to have a child.

What is it to me? What is my fault?

A relationship in which one of the partners may be disabled, mentally ill. In such situations, a person manifests so many higher qualities that he did not show in any favorable situation: care, love, compassion.

In order to correct our karma in this case, it is necessary to apply the rule: "All troubles are sent to us so that, looking for a way out of them, we begin our spiritual development and change something in ourselves for the better."

One gate play.

A girl gets married, becomes a wife, gives birth to a child, but her husband does nothing at all to develop relations. And for 15 years she has been humiliated and insulted by him. In such a connection, a certain triangle is very clearly visible. She is a typical victim, he is a persecutor, again she is a savior. Only the question arises: for whom is this all? This situation is very similar to a relationship, when in a married couple one alcoholic or drug addict, and the other is seriously suffering and tormented by this.

In this case, in order to correct your karma, you need to make drastic decisions. If you are ready to be the victim for the rest of your life, then you don't need to do anything. And if you still want to live differently, then you need to show all the strongest qualities of your character. And thereby show and prove to the partner that it cannot continue this way and give him such arguments that he was sincerely interested in building your relationship.

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  Usually, a karmic marriage means a union of two people who were already closely acquainted in their past incarnations, and who have some karmic debts to each other. Then the karmic ties that once emerged lead a certain man and woman to an inevitable meeting and marriage "to pay off the old bills." As a rule, such a marriage is problematic. After all, people are "brought" into such marriages precisely for the sake of testing, gaining a certain experience and returning some moral debts. For example, if you betrayed your marriage partner, you may be brought back together in the next incarnation, but you will switch roles and become a victim of adultery yourself. Details in an excellent article on karmic marriages here: http://vladimir-hazan.com/article_info.php/articles_id/38

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  Nastya, does anyone argue with this. You also indicated one of the reasons for the Karmic marriage. Yes, betrayed. They changed roles, but I know of several examples when people, living in a karmic marriage (and there were as many as three signs - drunkenness, the absence of children, the age difference of 5 years) - were able to work out karma. Defeat the alcoholism of the husband, give birth to a child, and now they live well. There is a very good expression in life: "Strong people quarrel, quarrel, reconcile, but stay together. The weak are looking for a replacement." I am convinced that any of our marriage partners are karmic.

The concept of "karma" comes from the East, but what it defines is not something alien to us. We all know proverbs like "What you sow is what you reap" or "As it comes around, it will respond."

A karmic marriage is a union of two people who were already closely acquainted in a past life, but they still have some debts to each other. In past incarnations, they could be husband and wife, relatives, parents of each other, lovers or even enemies. And in this life, fate brought them together again so that they would repay each other's debts and work out their karma (redeem their guilt, correct mistakes). After all, the union of two loving hearts is one of the greatest purgatory on Earth, where our characters and worldview are seriously tested.

Is it too confusing? Let me explain with an example. Suppose in a past life you had a boyfriend who doted on you and dreamed of marrying you. But you left him because the son of your boss had an eye on you. A marriage with him promised mountains of gold: career advancement, business trips abroad, a comfortable existence ... And you, finding these arguments very convincing, left the one who loved you more than life ...

Be sure that in this life a similar situation will certainly arise and it will repeat itself until you learn the lesson and do the right thing. As in a computer game: level two, attempt two.

However, before marriage, no one thinks about bad things and usually does not look through karma. But in vain. The very arguments that people are guided by when they marry can say a lot about the future life of the spouses.

So blind passion. This is a classic example of a karmic marriage. Let's consider it with a specific example.

In a past life, Nikolai Lvovich was a promising young scientist, but he loved his bride Anya so much that he gave up scientific research for her sake and did not justify his calling. In this life, he is literally obsessed with work and career, and tries to avoid women. The soul of Nikolai Lvovich remembers the experience of previous mistakes, and therefore a man is subconsciously afraid of marriage, as others are afraid of water, confined spaces or heights.

But the laws of karma cannot be abolished, therefore in this life our hero finds himself in a similar situation. His fear and attempts to escape from love are blocked by a unique mechanism of blind passion: Nikolai Lvovich falls in love like a boy, lives with his beloved, raves about her. As a result, protective barriers collapse, fear recedes into the background ... It would seem, live and rejoice! But no.

After a while, our hero will have to face the same problem again as in his previous life. Again you will have to make a choice between vocation and love, and make the right decision, which in this case looks like this: love and work can be completely combined, you cannot betray yourself and give up your vocation.

Another classic example is the time has come. If you are getting married (getting married) not because you fell in love with all your heart, but because “the time has come” or because all your friends have already started a family, this should alert you. From a biological point of view, you just reached marriageable age and are ready to create your own family and have children (often unconsciously for yourself).

From a karmic point of view, the desire to get married appears at the age when you did it in your past life, especially if the marriage was unsuccessful. In other words, the mistake of the past life, deposited in karma, awaits its correction, and it seems that fate pushes a person to action - try again.

Marriage of convenience. The wedding epidemic usually begins in the last year of college. When old ties are broken, the usual rhythm of life changes, girls and boys are warmed by the hope that together it is not so scary to start a new stage of life. They look for a suitable partner for themselves - more promising, richer, with an apartment, with a car ... However, such a marriage is happy only when there are feelings and spiritual kinship between young people. If the decision is made solely for selfish reasons, the probability of a happy marriage is zero. Indeed, from a karmic point of view, such a marriage is nothing more than a desire to evade problems, to shift them onto the shoulders of a husband (wife).

The desire is both understandable and legitimate, but in fact, no one will solve our problems for us. And no matter what misfortunes we hide from (loneliness, lack of money, parental dictatorship), they will certainly overtake us. And this will continue until we find the strength to solve the problem on our own.

Now let me draw conclusions about the features of a karmic marriage:

- The marriage was unexpected for the partners themselves. Unexpected, because according to all the rules, orders and foundations, they are "not a couple." They may have, for example, completely different social status, environment, financial situation or age difference.

- In their relationship there is a lot of symbolic, “fatal” and predetermined. For example, their relationship looks outwardly incompatible with a happy coexistence. They can constantly quarrel and swear, but at the same time they simply cannot imagine life without each other.

- Alcohol or drug addiction of one of the partners. This family situation is always accompanied by the suffering of one of the partners. Most likely, in this life they just changed places and now one is experiencing what the other experienced in a previous life.

- Lack of children. Sign of the closedness of the future for the race. In marriage, not only two people are united, but also two families. Such relationships exist in order for partners to rethink their own traits that the genus does not want to pass on to future generations. If there is no rethinking, that most often such a marriage is dissolved.

- Health problems with one of the partners. This situation is created to awaken the higher aspects of love, such as compassion and caring, which might not manifest in a happy situation.

- Marriage happens unexpectedly and quickly, after which all ties with other people, including relatives, are broken by moving to another city or abroad.

- Very quick marriage after a couple of weeks of dating or less. In such a relationship, everything happens as if according to the script and the couple understands their new position only after a while. Before that, they were supposedly moved by forces that they themselves were not aware of.

Rarely, but it happens that people live together for many years and cannot imagine life without each other. They are not in love, they really love, accepting a partner as he is, with all his shortcomings and advantages.

From a karmic point of view, such spouses have passed all the tests, worked out all the lessons, corrected all mistakes and now enjoy each other, appreciating every moment allotted to them. Their fates are intertwined, they are tied with strong threads, bonds, and not chains or fetters.

Remember that karma is not a dogma or a curse. It is just the result of how you have lived in past lives and live in the present.

Correct mistakes, walk through life with an open Heart, giving Love. And then you will certainly meet your happiness.

They are far from such a rare phenomenon as it may seem at first glance. The very concept of "karma" is rooted in Eastern culture, but it is not at all alien to Slavic culture. All of us are well aware of proverbs like "As it comes around, so it will respond." They convey the basic meaning of karma very well. And now it's time to figure out what a karmic marriage is.

Karmic marriage acts as a union of two souls, embodied in a bodily shell, which have already repeatedly crossed in previous incarnations, but at the moment have unresolved mutual obligations. Before that, they could take on the roles of spouses, relatives, parents, lovers, they could be enemies.

In their current incarnation, karma again tied them together to give their own and work off negative karma (atonement, correction of mistakes). After all, it is precisely the union of the hearts of two lovers that represents a huge purgatory, in which the human character with a worldview is subject to global trials.

Examples of karmic relationships

If this information is too confusing for you, let's try to calculate in what situations a karmic marriage occurs.

Suppose that in your previous incarnation you met a guy who loved you dearly, with whom you planned to start a family. But you preferred a better-off candidate to him. Then we can say with 100% certainty that in this life you will regularly encounter similar situations until you are able to realize and learn the lesson that life has prepared for you and develop the correct strategy for behavior. This is very similar to a computer game in which you are given try number two in the second round.

But, when going to get married, people by and large are not inclined to think about the negative and do not engage in viewing karma. Although the motives according to which the marital relationship is planned can tell a lot. Let's consider them using a number of examples.

Indescribable passion

It is one of the traditional reasons for entering into karmic unions.

For example, in his past incarnation, Gennadievich was a promising scientist, but he was inflamed with ardent love for Nadezhda, who became his bride, and for her sake he left all his scientific works, not fulfilling the realization of his vocation. In this life, on the contrary, he plunged headlong into his career and work, and does not pay any attention to the representatives of the opposite sex. After all, his soul perfectly remembers the mistakes of the past, therefore, on a subconscious level, he is afraid to marry (he has developed a kind of phobia of the marriage union).

But such marriages will bring happiness only if they are based on sincere feelings and people are close in spirit. And if the decision was made only because of self-interest, then the probability that the marriage will be happy is equal to zero. According to the laws of karma, such a marriage is nothing more than the desire to hide from the problem, shifting it onto the shoulders of others (your spouse).

The desire is understandable, but not really feasible. After all, no one can solve our problems, except ourselves. And no matter what we want to hide from (poverty, loneliness, parental pressure), it will still overtake us. We will need to find the strength in ourselves to solve the problem on our own, because only in this case the situation will disappear from our lives.

So, if you, for example, are interested exclusively in your husband's money, then a situation will arise when he will lose his capital, and you will realize that you made the wrong choice. Look only at his position in society? The days will come when he will lose his job. And this is not a game of higher powers with us, but a karmic lesson. Everyone should go their own way and learn a lot.

Many young girls strive to get married as soon as possible in order to get rid of parental pressure or excessive control. But they find themselves in the same bondage, only now from their spouse.

This happens for the reason that dependence on someone is within us and is produced into the surrounding reality. What images are present in our heads, we get in the end. Even a gentle and calm man will become a real domestic tyrant if you constantly wait for this on a subconscious level.

How to avoid a karmic union

• You need to change! Make yourself a person. Learn not to depend on the opinions of other people. This will definitely entail positive changes in your life.
• People who are not self-sufficient believe that happiness will be brought to them by another person who will need them. They tend to complain about problems, which often hang on themselves.
• And more experienced souls have such a level of development, which allows them to help others. "Ancient souls" are not inclined to complain, on the contrary, others constantly turn to them to "cry into the vest."

How to calculate and determine it

A huge number of people are interested in this question, but in reality this action is only possible for an astrologer or an expert practicing reincarnation psychotherapy.

But there are also certain signs:

• significant age difference from 5 to 10 years. If she is more than 15 years old, then here you can 100% assert a karmic union;
• in addition, you can calculate your karmic number, which is an indicator for a certain period, with the completion of which serious changes will begin to "knock" into life.

To do this, you should add all the digits of your birthday:

• We take a sample - 25.05.1994.
• Then the karmic number will be \u003d 2 + 5 + 5 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 4 \u003d 35.

But note that if the number ten appears in the date of birth, add it completely, and do not divide it by one and zero.

The fact that it is a karmic marriage that takes place can also be established by an astrologer, having dealt with the influence of each planet and calculating the angle between them. The degree of this angle is decisive. Angles of 20, 40, 80 and 100 degrees indicate a karmic union.

Another way is to refer to Tarot cards, but this procedure also needs to be carried out by an experienced professional, not a charlatan. In the process of completing the card layout, certain combinations may fall out, which will indicate karmic connections between partners.

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Conclusions that indicate a karmic marriage

• Marriage is a surprise for the beloved themselves.It is unexpected because, according to all generally accepted rules, foundations and orders, they cannot be together. For example, a guy and a girl differ in their social status, financial condition, environment, age, skin color, and so on.
• There is an element of fatality and predestination. For example, partners constantly quarrel and swear, but are unable to part, let go of each other. Or from the outside it seems that the relationship is completely incompatible, but in reality the lovers are happy.
• One of the partners suffers from addiction (alcohol or drug). In this case, the second partner will definitely suffer. Most likely, there was a change of roles in the present incarnation, and one has to experience on his own experience what the other suffered from in a previous life.
• Childlessness. This means that the future is closed for procreation. In each marriage, there is a union of not only two people, but also two clans. And karmic relationships in this case are given with the aim that partners can rethink their certain traits, which the clan does not want to endow subsequent generations. If rethinking does not occur (which is most often the case), then such a marriage will surely fall apart.
• One of the partners is seriously ill.The situation is intended to awaken in the second person the highest aspects of love (care and compassion), which might not have arisen if everything was fine.
• The marriage union is concluded very rapidly, and then there is a sharp rupture of any ties (family, friendship), and the newlyweds change their place of residence (city, country).
• A hasty marriage (a few weeks after meeting). In this case, the relationship seems to be spelled out according to a certain scenario: the couple realizes their new position only after a certain time has passed. And before that, they seem to be hypnotized and do not understand what they are doing.
• In extremely rare situations, it happensthat people are forced to live together for many years, while they do not imagine their separation. They do not experience fleeting love, but truly love their partner and accept him as he is, with all his positive and negative sides.

If we consider such a marriage from a karmic point of view, then the partners were able to cope with all the trials sent from above, all the karmic lessons were worked out, and all the mistakes were corrected. Now they have the opportunity to enjoy each other's company, immersing themselves in every moment allotted to them. Their fates are so closely intertwined, they are connected with chains and fetters, and not just energy threads.